Dan, you are entitled to your opinions, but please don't go around to "obese" girls giving them helpful advice.
Frankly, I don't care enough about the general 3rd part to give any kind of advice. If anyone asks for help I will be glad to offer it. But he/she has to ask. We (my friends and I ) do help anyone wanting to change their bodies and we did it for free, sometimes giving up significant personal time
Many girls have an unfortunate tendency to get neurotic about these kinds of issues.
It shouldn't surprise anyone. Deep inside, they do know the truth, no matter how hard they try to deny it. The truth that they are fat. The gap between what they ought to be and what they are, and the lack of will to act to move from there easily breeds sadness and depression. And to add insult to injury, there is also a social gap they have to face because their handicap.
Lard is a curse.