I think, there's pretty lot of confusion among theoreticians, mostly among those close to what's called "philosophy of physics", which just comes from the fact that they tend to forget that physics is about observations and experiments in Nature. An experiment is just a controlled setup of sufficiently isolated systems to make observations under well-known conditions. So it's also not different from any observation of any phenomenon, where you have less "prepared" (e.g., in astronomy you cannot really do experiments, because you just look somehow to objects like stars, planets, galaxies, the microwave background radiation, etc. which are there and which we can't manipulate).
Now, from this point of view, what's a quantum state? It's (an equivalence class) of a "preparation procedure"! This "preparation" can be very direct, e.g., at the LHC, the accelerator physicists set up two beams of proton bunches, which are smashed into each other at one of the great detectors built by the detector people, which identify the particles in various clever ways and measure the interaction vertices where they are created, their energy and/or momentum, sometimes their spin/polarization and so on. Nowadays this is stored electronically in huge computer files, which then are evaluated by the experimentalist with statistical means to understand as many aspects of such proton-proton collisions as possible.
The "preparation procedure" can also consist of observations on given objects, like in my astronomy/cosmology example. You just look into the sky and find some object like our Sun. Then you can deduce its state by measuring its temperature, size, mass, etc.
With the discovery of quantum theory in 1925/26, it turned out that a system cannot be prepared in such a way that all the possible observables can have definite values, as was assumed in classical physics without even thinking about it. While according to classical physics you can, e.g., determine the position and momentum of a "particle" at arbitrary precision, and then these both quantities are known to have a definite value. It's also tacitly assumed that indeed they have definite values, even if haven't determined or observed and thus know them. Then we can use statistics as a tool to describe such a system in terms of probabilities, based on the incomplete knowledge we have due to a preparation/observation procedure. Nobody has a problem with this use of probabilities.
In quantum theory it's different, because according to quantum theory, neither position nor momentum can have a precise value, no matter how accurate I try to prepare or observe these quantities on a single particle. I can determine one of the quantities, say position, very accurately but then necessarily the other (here momentum) is only very inaccurately determined, according to the Heisenberg-Robertson uncertainty relation, ##\Delta x \Delta p \geq \hbar/2##.
This implies that we have only a probabilistic description in any case, no matter how accurately we try to determine the values of the observables of a system. This disturbs many thinkers about the "interpretation" of quantum theory, but from a physicist's point of view, that's simply a fact about Nature which has been figured out in a long process of observations and theory building since Galilei's times, where modern science has been discovered. Nature does not care, whether we like how she behaves or not, she just behaves as observed.
Maybe (or even most probably) we don't know enough about Nature to see a deterministic description of these quantum phenomena, but if there's really some theory like this, we simply have no evidence for it yet! In all cases of very accurate tests of quantum theory, nowadays also with not so small objects as elementary particles or photons, but with quite large molecules (double-slit experiment with bucky-ball molecules) or even macroscopic objects (entanglement of vibration modes of two macroscopic-sized diamonds), quantum theory has come out to describe the phenomena correctly. So, if you want it or not, at least at the moment we have all reason to believe that Nature behaves as described by quantum theory, including the irreducibly probabilistic behavior of observables, which is not due to a lack of knowledge about a system's state but is inherent in the very definition of the observables themselves.