fresh_42 said:
Well, it was your analogy.
Yes, I know. In the case of coin flips, we certainly would look for a "hidden variables" explanation, and we would find it very weird if we were unable to discover one. You prove that point by immediately going to a hidden-variables explanation.
And this only means that you cannot find an analogy in the classic macroworld that properly can be compared to entanglement. However, this fact might indicate that QFT is not a classical theory (comp. Bell) but it is not an indication of weirdness, only of the fact that we aren't trained (yet) to imagine it. There have been times people couldn't imagine non-Euclidean geometry.
It certainly is not a classical theory. But as I have said before, what's weird about quantum mechanics is not any of the "rules", but the fact that there is no definitive answer to the question of whether the equations describe a physical property of the world, or describe our knowledge about the world.
In the EPR experiment, with anti-correlated spin-1/2 particles, suppose that Alice and Bob agree ahead of time on the axis that they will measure spin relative to. When Alice measures spin-up, she knows immediately that Bob will measure spin-down. That's pretty straight-forward. But then the question is: what is the nature of that knowledge? If Bob has not yet measured his particle's spin, then does Alice's result tell her something about Bob that she didn't know earlier? I think it clearly does. So that's a fact about the universe that she learns by making her measurement. Did that fact become true at the time Alice made her measurement, or was it true earlier, and Alice only discovered it? If it became true when Alice made her measurement, then it seems that Alice had an effect on Bob: He went from a state in which there were two possible future results to a state in which there is only one possible future result. The assumption that it was true beforehand, and Alice's measurement only revealed its truth is a hidden variables theory, which is ruled out by Bell's theorem.
You can argue that we're thinking classically when we assume that there is such a thing as "the state" of a subsystem such as Bob; maybe it makes no sense to talk about his state as something separate from Alice's state. I think that that's a possibility, but it's muy weird.
I've already been through this with different participants, so I will just be repeating myself if I go on, but I do not think it's true that the apparent weirdness of quantum mechanics is due to its being so far removed from our intuitions. Special and General Relativity were similarly far removed from our intuitions, but (in my experience) it only takes a few months of working with them to get to the point where they don't seem so weird any more.