Should Men Living Alone Get a Cat?

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The discussion revolves around the idea of adopting a cat as a companion for a man living alone in a small condo. The individual expresses a desire for companionship without the high maintenance of a dog, especially given frequent travel for work. Concerns are raised about potential damage to belongings from a cat and societal perceptions of men owning cats. Participants in the thread largely encourage the idea of adopting an older cat from a shelter, emphasizing the benefits of having a low-maintenance pet that can be left alone for short periods. Opinions vary on the implications of a man having a cat, with some arguing that it can be seen as endearing rather than odd. The conversation touches on the emotional rewards of pet ownership, the practicality of adopting older cats, and the importance of finding a pet that fits the owner's lifestyle. Ultimately, the consensus leans towards the notion that personal happiness and companionship should take precedence over societal judgments.
  • #241
lol yeah there is nothing wrong with men having cats and not sure how that stereotype began tbh what is it about a cat that promotes femininity?!

there are some extremely camp men with big dogs doesn't help their image they are still camp
 
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  • #242
tashalustig said:
My cats have never got more aggressive from it though they are used to it now

There is a difference between "getting more aggressive" and "using their claws more aggressively". When a cat wants to run quickly, it has a sense of how far it should extend its claws to get traction. A cat with trimmed claws will extend them more since it has learned that it gets only a little traction from dull claws. If you stop trimming its claws, it will misjudge how far to extend them. It must re-learn what to do with its claws in various situations.
 
  • #243
tashalustig said:
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there are some extremely camp men with big dogs doesn't help their image they are still camp

What are "camp men?"
 
  • #244
If the hooks are just removed the claws still grip. They just don't shred furniture. I haven't noticed cats using their claws when they run. Interesting. I'll have to watch some videos of them. A family member adopted a declawed cat and he would ball up his paw and sock a dog or cat that came too close.
 
  • #245
Dembadon said:
What are "camp men?"

Well from having a very camp brother i would say he is just like the stereotype so think Will and Grace the annoying gay friend of Will's. I don't really know how to word it for you, camp men even seem to have a different tone in their voice much like a young girls the walk is very feminine as in a catwalk walk
 
  • #246
netgypsy said:
If the hooks are just removed the claws still grip. They just don't shred furniture. I haven't noticed cats using their claws when they run. Interesting. I'll have to watch some videos of them. A family member adopted a declawed cat and he would ball up his paw and sock a dog or cat that came too close.

poor thing, declawing is not really done in the UK! Mine don't scratch a lot tbh so have never noticed them having to get their claws out more die to clipping also i have been clipping their claws since they were kittens just so they don't get caught in things or accidentally hurt one another when playing
 
  • #247
Pixel enjoyed her long weekend with me. I gave her a bit of turkey to enjoy for Thanksgiving. I helped her discover the bedroom window and now she sneaks behind the curtains and sits on the deep sill occasionally during the night before relaxing back on the bed and falling asleep again.

I have lots of pictures and videos and just haven't gotten around to uploading them. We watched Spongebob yesterday; she likes Mr. Crabs for some reason.

I was watching some Netflix on my laptop in bed and she helped me pick out a show... and then another one, and the closed the browser window, opened a few others, put my recycle bin inside of itself and then deleted it, shut off my wireless transceiver, pressed the "B" key for a while, and finally got bored.

Either way, my number one goal has been achieved... keep her alive!
 
  • #248
FlexGunship said:
Pixel enjoyed her long weekend with me. I gave her a bit of turkey to enjoy for Thanksgiving. I helped her discover the bedroom window and now she sneaks behind the curtains and sits on the deep sill occasionally during the night before relaxing back on the bed and falling asleep again.

I have lots of pictures and videos and just haven't gotten around to uploading them. We watched Spongebob yesterday; she likes Mr. Crabs for some reason.

I was watching some Netflix on my laptop in bed and she helped me pick out a show... and then another one, and the closed the browser window, opened a few others, put my recycle bin inside of itself and then deleted it, shut off my wireless transceiver, pressed the "B" key for a while, and finally got bored.

Either way, my number one goal has been achieved... keep her alive!

Bless they do have a thing about typing for some reason i have turned my back for just a few mins before to find that the kitten has deleted things off the computer and somehow managed to empty the bin. Am looking forward to the pics. Is the little madam sleeping in with you
 
  • #249
FlexGunship said:
Pixel enjoyed her long weekend with me.

I have lots of pictures and videos and just haven't gotten around to uploading them. We watched Spongebob yesterday; she likes Mr. Crabs for some reason.

I was watching some Netflix on my laptop in bed and she helped me pick out a show... and then another one, and the closed the browser window, opened a few others, put my recycle bin inside of itself and then deleted it, shut off my wireless transceiver, pressed the "B" key for a while, and finally got bored.

Either way, my number one goal has been achieved... keep her alive!
Flex,

Since you are quite a devil :devil: and it is hard to know when you switch into being silly, sarcastic, etc... seriously, you watched Spongebob with her ?!

Rhody...

P.S. I still can't get over how she will bring things to you as well, some strange genetics going on there.
 
  • #250
The most comfortable places for a cat are the most inconvenient for humans.

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  • #251
tashalustig said:
poor thing, declawing is not really done in the UK! Mine don't scratch a lot tbh so have never noticed them having to get their claws out more die to clipping also i have been clipping their claws since they were kittens just so they don't get caught in things or accidentally hurt one another when playing

Declawing is nasty and unnecessary. They even have these little hollow soft claws you can glue on a cat but really how long do you think the cat would take to remove them. Five minutes maybe?
 
  • #252
KrisOhn said:
The most comfortable places for a cat are the most inconvenient for humans.

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OMG OMG gorgeous do you know the breed that look like a ragdoll pose
 
  • #253
tashalustig said:
poor thing, declawing is not really done in the UK! Mine don't scratch a lot tbh so have never noticed them having to get their claws out more die to clipping also i have been clipping their claws since they were kittens just so they don't get caught in things or accidentally hurt one another when playing

Here in the US, more and more veterinarians are refusing to do the procedure, based on ethical grounds. Long overdue, IMO.
 
  • #254
lisab said:
Here in the US, more and more veterinarians are refusing to do the procedure, based on ethical grounds. Long overdue, IMO.

Yes i would never do it it is like someone ripper nails off their child its just horrible there aren't many that would do it over here definitely no vets.
 
  • #255
Flex,
To celebrate the successful new addition to your household, I drew you a picture:
cat-1.jpg

You're welcome.
 
  • #256
tashalustig said:
OMG OMG gorgeous do you know the breed that look like a ragdoll pose
Looks part Siamese.

My cats just walk across the keyboard or sit on it. Usually that's coincident with mealtime.

Cat guys = very huggable, patient, dependable, . . . , house trained, . . . .
 
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  • #257
Astronuc said:
Looks part Siamese.

My cats just walk across the keyboard or sit on it. Usually that's coincident with mealtime.

Cat guys = very huggable, patient, dependable, . . . , house trained, . . . .

HAHAHAH house trained there's a positive point! She could actually be a number breeds especially as the little one is all white now, ragdoll, siamese, birman. But we will need more pictures :)
 
  • #258
rhody said:
Flex,

Since you are quite a devil :devil: and it is hard to know when you switch into being silly, sarcastic, etc... seriously, you watched Spongebob with her ?!

Rhody...

P.S. I still can't get over how she will bring things to you as well, some strange genetics going on there.

I might be 26, but I'm allowed to like Spongebob; we'll leave it at that.

EDIT: If she can carry it in her teeth she will. Sometimes held high as a prize, sometimes she'll drop it short, bat it for a second and then walk away.

I don't count it as "fetch" unless she drops it and runs back to the stairs and waits for me to throw it again. If she drops it and wanders off, then it's probably just a coincidence that I was nearby.

nobahar said:
Flex,
To celebrate the successful new addition to your household, I drew you a picture:
cat-1.jpg

You're welcome.

How'd you know I wear a top hat around the house?

Astronuc said:
Cat guys = very huggable, patient, dependable, . . . , house trained, . . . .

Minus the house trained thing... my housekeeper would strongly disagree with you on that point.
 
  • #259
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See... us watching Spongebob the other day.
 
  • #260
FlexGunship said:
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See... us watching Spongebob the other day.
Sorry Flex, that is just too funny, glad you and Pixel enjoy it though.

Rhody... :smile: :approve:
 
  • #261
FlexGunship said:
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See... us watching Spongebob the other day.
Sweet!
 
  • #262
Humans domesticated dogs. Cats domesticated humans. Does she purr when she watches spongebob? I confess I watch it also with a cat.
 
  • #263
netgypsy said:
Humans domesticated dogs. Cats domesticated humans. Does she purr when she watches spongebob? I confess I watch it also with a cat.

Does she purr when watching TV?? Please... she purrs when a breeze blows through the room.
 
  • #264
Flex, I'm sorry but that is really weird! You really need to expose Pixel to more sophisticated programming. I suggest turning on PBS.
 
  • #265
Ivan Seeking said:
Flex, I'm sorry but that is really weird! You really need to expose Pixel to more sophisticated programming. I suggest turning on PBS.

Ivan, she's a baby. She's not going to appreciate a documentary on the Wuba-wuba people of Southern Monolongabongaboo, she likes bright flashing colors and surprising noises...

... and I like it because of the complicated subtext and gripping side plots.

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Source: http://welcometothekrustykrab.tumblr.com/post/4428393947/i-cant-see-my-forehead
 
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  • #266
While we're talking about cats have you guys seen this? (Ignore commercial first)http://www.jokeroo.com/videos/animal/kangaroo-hopping-kitten.html
 
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  • #267
LOL that gave me quite a giggle mine like scifi i think its all the space ships personally
 
  • #268
FlexGunship said:
she likes bright flashing colors and surprising noises

Yeah, me too.

My Little Tyke likes to ride in the car now. When I get in the car to drive up to the house, she comes running and leaps into the front seat, then the back window. When I park at the house, she often gets out and runs back down to the office.

It seems that I'm just running a cat joyride service.
 
  • #269
Ivan Seeking said:
Yeah, me too.

My Little Tyke likes to ride in the car now. When I get in the car to drive up to the house, she comes running and leaps into the front seat, then the back window. When I park at the house, she often gets out and runs back down to the office.

It seems that I'm just running a cat joyride service.

:smile: you definitely do sound like you are
 
  • #270
I made some Pixel-based memes. The picture is just a random cat picture I found on a meme-generator site... no Pixel, unfortunately.

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