Alright, I'll get you started. Keep in mind that, as the name implies, a FREE body diagram considers only one element at a time, ignoring all the others. In this case we want to draw a free body diagram for the pole. Why? Because all of the forces we are asked to solve for act on the pole. What are they? Make a list of them:
Forces that act on the pole:
- its own weight
- the reaction force(s) of the vertical wall
- the load
- the force on the pole due to the tension of the wire
Next, ask yourself, where does each of these forces act, and in what direction? If the force is not nicely horizontal or vertical, resolve it into horizontal and vertical components. The problem gives you enough information to do so.
Now, draw the picture of the pole (just the pole), with all the force vectors in the correct places and orientations. Now, keep in mind, everything is in equilibrium. There can't be a net force acting on the pole, otherwise it would be accelerating. Thus, all the horizontal components of all the forces must balance each other out:
[tex]\sum F_x = 0[/tex]
and all the vertical components of all the forces must cancel each other out:
[tex]\sum F_y = 0[/tex]
Substitute all the relevant forces into these two equations, and ask yourself whether you have enough information to solve for the unknowns (the forces the problem asks you to calculate). If not, you may have to consider torques as well. Again, because this is an equilibrium problem, the net torque on the pole must be zero. Otherwise, the pole would be rotating.
So you see what equilibrium problems are all about? Just be methodical, go through things step by step, in this way.