Mazulu said:
Something like a u^{\gamma} is just a simple vector.
It's the component of a vector in a basis. What you wrote as \vec{A} = A_{1}\hat{e}_{1} + A_{2}\hat{e}_{2} + A_{3}\hat{e}_{3}, can be written as A=A^\mu e_\mu.
Mazulu said:
I keep wondering if the metric tensor g has anything to do with g as gravitational acceleration.
We still need a metric even when there's no such thing as gravity (i.e. in special relativity), but if you're asking if the choice of the symbol g was inspired by it, then I don't know, but it's possible, since a lot of differential geometry was developed after it was discovered that it was needed in general relativity.
Mazulu said:
So if I write something like g^{\alpha \gamma}e_{\gamma} = e_{\gamma}, then I am writing down a transformation of the basis unit vector.
Consider an example: If g^{\alpha\beta} denotes the components of the metric of Minkowski spacetime in an inertial coordinate system, then what you wrote down means g^{\alpha 0}e_0+g^{\alpha 1}e_1 +g^{\alpha 2}e_2+g^{\alpha 3}e_3=e_\gamma and this simplifies to -e_0+e_1+e_2+e_3=e_\gamma which is clearly false for all \gamma, assuming that \{e_\alpha\}_{\alpha=0}^3 is a basis.
Mazulu said:
Now e^{\alpha}e_\beta = \delta^{\alpha}_{\beta} is starting to make sense.
It's the definition of a basis on V*. This is explained in the post I linked to earlier, and more details can be found in the first of the three posts I linked to in the end of that one.
Mazulu said:
I do wonder about those one form e^{\beta} differential objects. How do differentials enter the picture?
For any smooth function f:U\rightarrow\mathbb R, there's a cotangent vector (df)_p\in T_pM^* for each p\in U. I think some authors would call each (df)_p a 1-form, and the map p\mapsto (df)_p a 1-form field, and that others would just call (df)_p a cotangent vector and p\mapsto(df)_p a 1-form. (df)_p is the cotangent vector defined by (df)_p(v)=v(f) for all v\in T_pM.
There are several ways to define the tangent space T_pM. (Click the last link in the post I linked to earlier for more information). When we define T_pM as a space of derivative operators, the basis vectors associated with the coordinate system x:V\rightarrow \mathbb R^n are the partial derivative operators \left.\frac{\partial}{\partial x^\mu}\right|_p (defined in that post), and the dual of this basis is \{(dx^\mu)_p\}, where x^\mu is the function that takes p\in V to (x(p))^\mu.