s3a said:
2) I suppose that is not a theorem, because is not something that can be proven (and same goes for [ii]). Why is (and same goes for [ii]) not an axiom instead of a definition, though? And phrased more directly: why is it a definition, and why does it need to be defined?
That's a good question and it highlights the difference between the concepts involved in the theory of probability and the concepts involved in applying the theory of probability to real life situations.
You are correct that conditional probability is implemented as a definition, not a theorem. This is because the axiomatic approach to probability theory only deals with the
probability of events in a probability space,
not with the concept of those events "actually occurring". In applying probability, we freely think of being "given" that an event in a probability space 'actually occurred", but that's application, not theory. The way that theory implements the concept that an event [itex]A[/itex] in a probability space "actually occurs" is indirect. It doesn't give a formal definition for the statement "[itex]A[/itex] actually occurs". Instead it gives a formula for computing probabilities in another probability space that is defined by the condition "given [itex]A[/itex]".We can daydream about an approach to probability that gives a direct definition of "event [itex]A[/itex] actually occurs" and then proves the formula for [itex]P(B|A)[/itex] as a theorem. The reason that standard probability theory chickens out from this approach is that it is intellectually treacherous to mix the concept of a probabilistic event with the concept of the definite occurrence of an event.
For example, suppose [itex]X[/itex] is a random variable uniformly distributed on the interval [0,1]. Suppose we assume it is possible to take a random sample of [itex]X[/itex] and that the event [itex]\{X = r \}[/itex] for some number [itex]r[/itex] "actually occurs". Such an event has probability zero. The event [itex]\{ X \ne r \}[/itex] has probability 1. So assuming the event [itex]\{ X = r \}[/itex] "actually occurred" implies an event with probability zero "actually occurred" and event with probability 1 " did not actually occur".
This apparent contradiction is not a paradox in standard treatment of mathematical probability theory simply because the standard treatment of probability theory does not give any definition for the "actually occurrence" of an event in a probability space ( -which is the reason I keep putting the such phrases in quotation marks). So if a person wants to talk about an event in a probability space "actually occurring", he is not discussing a concept that is defined within the standard treatment of mathematical probability theory. People can debate questions like "Must an event with probability 1 always occur?". Such debates are in the realm of Philosophy or Metaphysics (or perhaps we can call them debates about "the interpretation of probability theory" since the forum frowns on philosophical discussions). There is no way to settle such questions by using the axioms and definitions of probability theory since that material doesn't treat the concept of "actual occurrence".
Axiomatic probably avoids philosophical tangles by side stepping the concept of a probabilistic event actually occurring. The concept of actual occurrence is dealt with indirectly by means of the definition of conditional probability. As Ray Vickson points out, this definition is motivated by concepts involved in applying probability to practical situations.