zonde said:
There is something to talk about. Idea that time and space are unphysical is common understanding. Relativity on the other hand redefined time and space as clocks and rulers. And certainly clocks and rulers have physical properties and so have relativistic space and time.
And so if someone is using space and time as commonly understood it's up to you to explain that within context of relativity space and time has slightly different meaning.
How exactly, do we do this explaining?
It certainly is common for people to have some understanding of space and time in a manner that is pre-relativistic. And we can try and point this out to the people, but the usual result is they don't understand what we mean when we say this. It's especially a problem if they're asking some question about GR without the understanding of SR to back up the explanation.
If someone does understand and/or is able to listen to an explanation that the distance between two events is not an invariant in special relativity the way it is in pre-relativistic theories, that what is invariant is not the distance between the events, but the Lorentz interval between the events, the conversation is progressing in a useful manner.
Mainly because the person, in order to understand this, has already done enough reading to have grasped much of the point on their own. Otherwise, they'll tend to not be familiar with the Lorentz interval or understand why it was mentioned at all - and while they are (in my opinion at least) perfectly capable of understanding the words that "the distance depends on the reference frame and hence is not solely a property of the events", they won't actually ACCEPT it.
More typically, if we point out the pre-relativity space and time is different than post-relativity space and time, the original poster doesn't even see the relevance of pointing this out. After all, on the surface at least, they were asking about something that was completely different.
It is often rather difficult to get the points about space, time, and their interrelationship in SR, even if they are specifically interested in this issue, for that mater. Textbooks, realistically, probably do a better job of explaining than a post on a forum can do.
My position, after a lot of experience, is that not only is it "not up to me" to explain things in a way people can accept, it's probably not even generally possible. You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink.
That said, I am interested in ways to improve the success rate of "getting the horse to drink", i.e. getting people to understand some of the basic ideas of relativistic space-time, and/or ore advanced topics, and how to present it clearly at the most elementary level possible in a way that allows it to be accepted and assimilated.