Where Are the Intelligent, Easy-Going Men for Seniors?

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The discussion revolves around frustrations with online dating, particularly on match.com for seniors. Users express disappointment in the quality and appearance of potential matches, often comparing them unfavorably to stereotypes. One participant notes a lack of results despite specific search criteria, leading to a broader conversation about the challenges of finding intelligent, easygoing partners. Suggestions include adjusting search parameters, considering keyword searches in profiles, and exploring alternative dating sites or local clubs that align with personal interests. Participants share personal experiences with online dating, highlighting the difficulty of finding genuine connections and the prevalence of misleading profiles. The conversation also touches on the importance of presenting oneself authentically in dating profiles and the potential for meeting like-minded individuals through community involvement. Overall, the thread captures the complexities and humorous frustrations of navigating the online dating landscape for seniors.
  • #31
Evo said:
He should like moonlit walks to the dumpster, not mind me sleeping next to a box of kleenex, hopefully he will not wake up when I scream out in pain at 3am when I hit my toe on the corner of the wall on my way to the bathroom. He will line my meds up for me to take and keep track of them for me.

<sigh>

You will find someone, who is just perfect for you...and good with meds...meaning the dispensing of them, not sneaking yours.
 
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  • #32
Evo said:
I wanted to volunteer at the arboretum, but then I hurt my hips. Need to get that fixed.

I am seriously considering becoming a volunteer proof reader for the Guttenberg project. But that's done on my home computer and I would never actually meet anyone.

Oh, and this is Kansas, as in we ain't got no culture here, nope, don't allow it, damn city slickers. *spits chaw into styrofoam cup*

Never been to Kansas. Sorry to learn about your hips but I assume you can walk. If that is the case then you can become a docent or take some classes at the Deanna Rose Children's Farmstead and the Overland park Arboretum and Botanical Gardens in Kansas. You might even donate some of your time selling items in their gift shop or help to plan an event. Once you are a docent (volunteer) then you are invited to private functions with their Trustees and Fellows of the garden. You can meet a lot of fine people at those events too. Trustees and Fellows of Botanical Gardens travel the world and they are people who are extremely nice. Who knows, you may meet a nice gentleman there. :smile:

I think there are great opportunities available to you. Just call the number and see if you can volunteer or even take a class there.

http://www.artsandrec-op.org/arboretum/index.html
http://www.opkansas.org/Things-to-See-And-Do/Arboretum-Classes-Programs-And-Events
http://www.artsandrec-op.org/index.html

It's just a baby step toward a rewarding future.
 
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  • #33
Internet dating should give you a fresh outlook on misanthropy.

You might even find one of those annoying compulsive types, like the ones who can't help but mention:

http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/pique"

http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/peak"

http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/peek"
 
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  • #34
Zryn said:
Internet dating should give you a fresh outlook on misanthropy.

You might even find one of those annoying compulsive types, like the ones who can't help but mention:

http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/pique"

http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/peak"

http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/peek"

Yeah yeah. We saw it. We ignored it. Grammar nazi... :wink:
 
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  • #35
I am sure there are many people not looking for something special or some special sparks but I wonder if sites like match.com are targeted for those people.

Just keep working on it I hope you get someone soon!

:biggrin:
 
  • #36
Evo said:
Egads, just for fun I checked out match.com's site for seniors. AAARRRGGGHHHH! Why do they all look like Larry the Cable guy?

...Where are the easy going, intelligent men that don't look like neanderthals standing next to corvettes?

Hmm...how do you feel about ninjas Evo?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Aq8cX633ZMo


Anyway...

True story: I tried eharmony myself. And do you know what they told me, after hours of painstakingly answering their surveys, and filling in vital information? That I fit into a low percentage of persons, they felt they'd rather be honest with, that they couldn't help. :rolleyes:

Laughed at my computer screen for about 10 minutes. I basically described someone I knew.
 
  • #37
I am seriously considering becoming a volunteer proof reader for the Guttenberg project. But that's done on my home computer and I would never actually meet anyone.

Wow, this is the first time I've met another person who knows about the Guttenberg project. I used to be a proofreader, and it was very interesting to read old books from every conceivable subject. Definitely try it out, whether or not it's suitable for dating.
 
  • #38
ideasrule said:
Wow, this is the first time I've met another person who knows about the Guttenberg project. I used to be a proofreader, and it was very interesting to read old books from every conceivable subject. Definitely try it out, whether or not it's suitable for dating.
I love ancient manuscripts, so I often visit their site to see what's old that's new.

Oh dear, I just checked a site I belong to that I haven't visited for awhile and have 527 new messages from people. And my profile says not to bother contacting me.
 
  • #39
Evo said:
I love ancient manuscripts, so I often visit their site to see what's old that's new.

Oh dear, I just checked a site I belong to that I haven't visited for awhile and have 527 new messages from people. And my profile says not to bother contacting me.

Sorry 'bout that. You can ignore the first 526. I was feeling impatient and may have resent a few too many times.
 
  • #40
ViewsofMars said:
Never been to Kansas. Sorry to learn about your hips but I assume you can walk. If that is the case then you can become a docent or take some classes at the Deanna Rose Children's Farmstead and the Overland park Arboretum and Botanical Gardens in Kansas. You might even donate some of your time selling items in their gift shop or help to plan an event. Once you are a docent (volunteer) then you are invited to private functions with their Trustees and Fellows of the garden. You can meet a lot of fine people at those events too. Trustees and Fellows of Botanical Gardens travel the world and they are people who are extremely nice. Who knows, you may meet a nice gentleman there. :smile:

I think there are great opportunities available to you. Just call the number and see if you can volunteer or even take a class there.

http://www.artsandrec-op.org/arboretum/index.html
http://www.opkansas.org/Things-to-See-And-Do/Arboretum-Classes-Programs-And-Events
http://www.artsandrec-op.org/index.html

It's just a baby step toward a rewarding future.
Thank you for the links! I was about to sign up when I started having pain in my hips, especially if I walk or bend forward. I'm not much good at working on a outdoors project, which is what I wanted.
 
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  • #41
I'd go out with you... :smile:

Except that I don't fit your criteria, just like almost 7 billion other people! :wink:

You're kind of picky, aren't you! :biggrin:
 
  • #42
I like Serena said:
I'd go out with you... :smile:

Except that I don't fit your criteria, just like almost 7 billion other people! :wink:

You're kind of picky, aren't you! :biggrin:

Now, now, let's not discourage Evo...
Let's mathematically calculate how many partner there are for a given person: See http://mathfail.com/2009/09/how-many-girls-are-there-for-me.html

I guess there would be about 10000 guys in the world that are potential dating material for Evo. So there's still hope left. The only question is how to meet them...
 
  • #43
Evo said:
I selected men from 5'5 to 7'11"", agnostic/atheist, between 50-65 years old, intelligent, body type slim, average, or a few extra pounds, for pen pal, friendship or casual relationship.

Where are the easy going, intelligent men that don't look like neanderthals standing next to corvettes?

I like Serena said:
I'd go out with you... :smile:

Except that I don't fit your criteria, just like almost 7 billion other people! :wink:

You're kind of picky, aren't you! :biggrin:
Wait, what part do you not fit? Maybe it's negotiable. :wink:
 
  • #44
Evo said:
Wait, what part do you not fit?

As for me, I don't fit any of your criteria :biggrin:

atheist -> nope
between 50/65 -> nope
intelligent -> nope
laidback -> depends on the situation, usually yes...
 
  • #45
micromass said:
As for me, I don't fit any of your criteria :biggrin:

atheist -> nope
between 50/65 -> nope
intelligent -> nope
laidback -> depends on the situation, usually yes...
Yeah, but you're still my Supreme Onion. :!) And you're very intelligent.
 
  • #46
Evo said:
Wait, what part do you not fit? Maybe it's negotiable. :wink:

Well let's see... I can see that you consider me too young.
I wouldn't put "intelligent" in my profile.
And I'm not free for a relationship.

But I could be your pen pal...
Oh wait! I guess I already am, in a way! :wink:
 
  • #47
I like Serena said:
Well let's see... I can see that you consider me too young.
I wouldn't put "intelligent" in my profile.
And I'm not free for a relationship.

But I could be your pen pal...
Oh wait! I guess I already am, in a way! :wink:
I lied about the age thing, I like younger men. <cough>

All of the good men are taken. My best male friends are all married, except one, but he's not interested in talking much.

:frown:
 
  • #48
Evo said:
I lied about the age thing, I like younger men. <cough>

All of the good men are taken. My best male friends are all married, except one, but he's not interested in talking much.

:frown:

What about this, Evo? http://www.sciconnect.com/ I checked out some profiles for your age range and they seem to be exactly what you want! :smile:
 
  • #49
I don't like to get married but I also don't want to be alone when I'm over 50. :frown:
 
  • #50
micromass said:
What about this, Evo? http://www.sciconnect.com/ I checked out some profiles for your age range and they seem to be exactly what you want! :smile:
Oooh, Supreme Onion, you have done well!
 
  • #52
Pengwuino said:
Damn nerds.

http://www.sciconnect.com/cgi/matchsum.cgi

They have a statistics page with notes :rolleyes:

Here, penguin, dating on the south pole: http://www.youfreedating.com/dating-women-south-pole-city1.html
 
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  • #53
micromass said:
Here, penguin, dating on the south pole: http://www.youfreedating.com/dating-women-south-pole-city1.html

Sounds like a winner

hell and how are u dong s wll o i am erica nd i am 30yrs of age ith no kids an i am looking formy love as well ok
 
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  • #55
I think SciConnect will work for Evo.
 
  • #56
Astronuc said:
I think SciConnect will work for Evo.

I agree Astro, I dug deeper, Evo, click http://www.sciconnect.com/photos.shtml" and from the men's photos, from sheer looks alone, see if any of these guys suit you (or if none, say nada).

Rhody... matchmaker, matchmaker, make me a match, catch me a catch... :redface: :smile:

P.S. Just to check them out, I clicked on the join link, it says these people are actively seeking others, so be careful what you wish for, lol. 65$ for a year and 30$ for three months.
 
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  • #57
Pengwuino said:
Sounds like a winner

*wonders what formy love is :confused:*
 
  • #58
lisab said:
*wonders what formy love is :confused:*

Lisa scores one, Jimmy = 54, Lisa = 23 and climbing, Note: numbers are ages as well, hehe...

Rhody... :redface:

P.S. Evo is hard at work with her choice(s), I am sure she report back, soon, well, then again, maybe not...
 
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  • #59
Unfortunately to look at what's available at the SciConnect site, I'd have to join up. So far the examples just don't do it for me. Although these people are definitely of higher overall quality and more open minded than at other sites.
 
  • #60
Evo said:
Unfortunately to look at what's available at the SciConnect site, I'd have to join up. So far the examples just don't do it for me. Although these people are definitely of higher overall quality and more open minded than at other sites.

Keep this in mind, though: there are probably legions of geeks who meet your criteria, but only lurk on that site, hoping to find their EvoGoddess. If you join, you might pique the interest of one of them :wink:.