Ivan Seeking
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turbo said:Hotness is not only in the eye of the beholder, but in the mind of the be-held-her. That matters a lot. If you are on the same channel as your love interest (intellectually) and get warm feedback during little periods of intimacy, then she is like a super-magnet. Movies and pretty pictures in fashion magazines can't compare.
I understand your point and the context here, but to me there is still a difference between beauty and sexiness. What you describe, I would ascribe more to passion.
To me, there is a definite difference between beautiful, and hot. I might say my sister is beautiful, but I would never think of her as hot. A pregnant woman can be beautiful, but hot? I DON'T THINK SO!