Why do people misunderstand each other sometimes?

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Misunderstandings in communication often arise from various factors, including unusual speech patterns and false expectations. People may misinterpret messages due to unfamiliar language use or preconceived notions about what they expect to hear. The complexity of language processing means that listeners rely on past experiences and associations, which can lead to confusion, especially when sentences deviate from the norm. Additionally, misunderstandings can stem from psychological triggers, where individuals interpret messages through the lens of their insecurities or past experiences. The discussion highlights that while misunderstandings can lead to conflict, they can also provide opportunities for insight and growth if approached with curiosity and a willingness to clarify. Ultimately, effective communication requires mutual understanding and a shared frame of reference, which is often lacking in conversations.
  • #51
It happens all the time, i think conversations are a mutual misunderstanding...

Sometimes it's great because a conversation is a mutual sharing process, and in the end both people leave comfortable having shared something and returned with something new in their heads, ut that doesn't mean that they really understood each other...But that's enough for me.

Sometimes it's bugging because people just don't want to listen and don't want to compromise, don't want to understand u, what's on their minds, is on their minds...So no matter what u say, they'll understand it in their own way, and u leave feeling that u should never ever open ur mouth and talk again...
 
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  • #52
Daminc said:
How can anyone not like bananas?

I hate bananas and anyone who likes them.

*pulls out his sword*

Bring it on :devil: :devil:
 
  • #53
Daminc said:
How can anyone not like bananas?

Did someone say bananas :!)
 
  • #54
Pengwuino said:
I hate bananas and anyone who likes them.

*pulls out his sword*

Bring it on :devil: :devil:

*pulls out a frozen banana*
Have at thee varlet. Thy uncouth mannerisms and foul taste shall be tempered with the might of a banana.
 
  • #55
...

IF I KNEW THIS THREAD ENDED UP WITH BANANAS, I'D NEVER START IT!:cry::cry:
 
  • #56
Lisa! said:
IF I KNEW THIS THREAD ENDED UP WITH BANANAS, I'D NEVER START IT!
Perhaps there's been a misunderstanding :smile: :smile:
 
  • #57
Nomy-the wanderer said:
It happens all the time, i think conversations are a mutual misunderstanding...

Sometimes it's great because a conversation is a mutual sharing process, and in the end both people leave comfortable having shared something and returned with something new in their heads, ut that doesn't mean that they really understood each other...But that's enough for me.

Sometimes it's bugging because people just don't want to listen and don't want to compromise, don't want to understand u, what's on their minds, is on their minds...So no matter what u say, they'll understand it in their own way,
Yeah, I agree with you. I don't know :smile: or :cry: in these situations.



and u leave feeling that u should never ever open ur mouth and talk again...
Or perhaps type! :wink:
 
  • #58
Daminc said:
*pulls out a frozen banana*
Have at thee varlet. Thy uncouth mannerisms and foul taste shall be tempered with the might of a banana.
I never said I don't like the occasional banana fight.
*Slaps Daminc with a banana*
 
  • #59
Two words: banana bread. Oh, good god - BANANA BREAD! How long has it been? Why hast I forsaken thee, oh fruity loaf?!?
 
  • #60
arildno said:
I never said I don't like the occasional banana fight.
*Slaps Daminc with a banana*
I'm game! [Hurls banana from some distance towards arildno's head, it hits home, u-turns, then returns to my waiting hand]
 
  • #61
Banana, banana!
I'll disarm that guy!
*Rushes after the flying banana, is about to overtake it, but stumbles, face slamming into El Hombre's crotch*
 
  • #62
Hey guys, do you like to fish?
 
  • #63
Banana is better than fish.
 
  • #64
It's fun esp. when you go fishing by a boat. You don't have to eat fishes that you catch.
 
  • #65
arildno said:
Banana, banana!
I'll disarm that guy!
*Rushes after the flying banana, is about to overtake it, but stumbles, face slamming into El Hombre's crotch*
Geddoff me banana!
 
  • #66
El Hombre Invisible said:
Geddoff me banana!
Sorry, my mistake, won't happen again. Do you want my banana, as a peace offering?
 
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  • #67


I hope all of people who talk about banana, step on one and slip! :devil:
 
  • #68
Banana, bread and nutella :D
 
  • #69
Beware arildno, I've just ordered a stealth banana to be launched.

Banana, bread and nutella
Funnily enough I had one of those about three weeks ago.
 
  • #70
Daminc said:
Beware arildno, I've just ordered a stealth banana to be launched.
Am I in danger of getting stabbed in the back all of a sudden?
 
  • #71
arildno said:
Am I in danger of getting stabbed in the back all of a sudden?
Beware of people who smile at you while holding a banana.
 
  • #72
It's targetted at your feet. Your sole shall be displaced and you shall fall on your butt.
That's the plan anyway
 
  • #73
Has anyone ever slipped on a banana or banana peel? The only fruit I've ever slipped on was a rotten tomato, which was scary because I was hanging off a bridge at the time (ahhhh, my days of being the bridge-climbing champion of Shrewsbury...).
 
  • #74
El Hombre Invisible said:
Beware of people who smile at you while holding a banana.

Daminc said:
It's targetted at your feet. Your sole shall be displaced and you shall fall on your butt.
That's the plan anyway
:cry: :cry: :cry:
Unfriendly banana-wielders both of you!
I've made friendly overtures and been receptive and open to any suggestions, and how I am repaid for that?

Fie, you're no fun to play with!
El Hombre said:
Has anyone ever slipped on a banana or banana peel? The only fruit I've ever slipped on was a rotten tomato, which was scary because I was hanging off a bridge at the time (ahhhh, my days of being the bridge-climbing champion of Shrewsbury...)
And don't you dare, El Hombre, to try and slip on ME; it'll hurt, I promise.
 
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  • #75
Misunderstanding and ? what's the relation?
 
  • #76
Lisa! how can you NOT like bananas ? Is it the taste? The texture?
 
  • #77
Daminc said:
Lisa! how can you NOT like bananas ? Is it the taste? The texture?
I'll tell you exactly what is wrong with a banana; stick it in your mouth, and it SOFTENS and turns into mush.
 
  • #78
Chocolate does that and I bet you like chocolate.
 
  • #79
Daminc said:
Chocolate does that and I bet you like chocolate.
It doesn't; not right away.
I want to chew on my food before it softens; the banana does so way too prematurely.
 
  • #80
arildno said:
It doesn't; not right away.
I want to chew on my food before it softens; the banana does so way too prematurely.

And that makes u just eat more and mroe and more... :!)
 

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