Alright, for half a year I researched that when an entire valence shell is filled the atom is stable. For example, oxygen, with six valence electrons, doulble bonds with another oxygen, in order to fill the entire valence shell, count it up. 2S^2,2P^4 + 2 = 8. This is the octec rule. Now, I assumed, as the atom got larger, it would just need to share more atoms, in order to COMPLETELY fill or empty it's valence shell. Sodium and chloride do that, sodium:valence = 1,chloride:valence=7. They bond, both of them follow the octec rule. Okay, but as I got into larger atoms, I noticed one in particular, titanium. This atom has three shells, and fills up the fourth. Now, it bonds with four, in order to become stable, but that would leave 3P and 3S. The atom would still be unstable. 3P and 3S are still in the picture. According to what I've learned, the ENTIRE valence shell must be emptied or filled, in order to reach a stable atom. But, titanium won't do this. So, I must have missed something. Where's that something?