The discussion centers around the prevalence of degrading and violent pornography on the internet, with a call for more creative and enjoyable representations of sex for adults. Participants express a desire for soft porn that celebrates the beauty of the human body rather than depicting extreme perversion and sadism. There is a recognition that many people consume porn to escape their own sexual realities, often leading to unrealistic expectations and jealousy in relationships. The conversation touches on the impact of pornography on personal relationships, with some arguing that it can create issues while others believe it can be a healthy part of sexual exploration when approached consensually. The dialogue also highlights the challenges of finding advertising space for more positive sexual content and the societal stigma surrounding sex, suggesting that a shift in how sexuality is viewed could lead to a more open and enjoyable exploration of sexual themes online. Overall, the participants advocate for a balance between fantasy and reality in sexual expression, emphasizing the importance of consent and mutual enjoyment in relationships.