If the height between the surfaces is small, you can neglect gravity. Let's use cylindrical polar coordinates, with z = 0 at the plane half-way between the plates, and with the axis at the centerline of the squished drop. A position vector from the origin to any point on the free surface is given by
[tex]\vec{r}=r\vec{i}_r+z\vec{i}_z[/tex]
We are going to represent the radial and axial locations on the free surface parameterically as a function of the arc length parameter s measured along the arc from the mid plane. Thus, r = r(s) and z = z(s), with r(0) = rmax, and z(0) = 0. In addition, [tex](ds)^2=(dr)^2+(dz)^2[/tex]
This equation can be satisfied automatically if we make use of the contour angle ø of the arc, defined such that
[tex]dr=-sin(\phi(s))ds[/tex]
[tex]dz=cos(\phi(s))ds[/tex]
with the initial condition [tex]\phi(0)=0[/tex]
By introducing the angle ø(s) into the analysis, we have reduced the number of dependent variables from two to one. Once the function ø(s) is specified, the entire shape of the free surface is established (by integrating the above differential equations for r and z, subject to the initial conditions on r and z at s = 0).
A differential position vector within the surface is given by:
[tex]d\vec{r}=\vec{i}_rdr+\vec{i}_zdz+\vec{i}_θrdθ=[-sin\phi\vec{i}_r+<br />
cos\phi\vec{i}_z]ds+rdθ\vec{i}_θ[/tex]
Let's do a force balance on a small "rectangular" window of the free surface between s and s+Δs, and θ and θ+Δθ. The sides of the rectangle are of length Δs and rΔθ. The membrane force acting on the side at s+Δs is given by [itex]σ[-sin\phi\vec{i}_r+<br />
cos\phi\vec{i}_z]_{s+Δs}rΔθ[/itex], where σ is the surface tension. The membrane force acting on the side at s+Δs is given by [itex]-σ[-sin\phi\vec{i}_r+<br />
cos\phi\vec{i}_z]_srΔθ[/itex]. The membrane force on the side at θ+Δθ is given by [itex]σ[\vec{i}_θ]_{θ+Δθ}Δs[/itex]. The membrane force on the side at θ is given by [itex]-σ[\vec{i}_θ]_{θ}Δs[/itex]. The area of the window is rΔsΔθ. The unit normal vector to the window is given by [itex]cos\phi\vec{i}_r+sin\phi\vec{i}_z[/itex]. So, the differential force balance on the window is given by:
[tex](p_{in}-p_{out})(cos\phi\vec{i}_r+sin\phi\vec{i}_z)rΔsΔθ+σ[-sin\phi\vec{i}_r+<br />
cos\phi\vec{i}_z]_{s+Δs}rΔθ-σ[-sin\phi\vec{i}_r+<br />
cos\phi\vec{i}_z]_srΔθ+σ[\vec{i}_θ]_{θ+Δθ}Δs-σ[\vec{i}_θ]_{θ}Δs=0[/tex]
If we divide this equation by rΔsΔθ and take the limit as Δs and Δθ approach zero, we obtain:
[tex](p_{in}-p_{out})(cos\phi\vec{i}_r+sin\phi\vec{i}_z)+σ\frac{∂[-sin\phi\vec{i}_r+<br />
cos\phi\vec{i}_z]}{∂s}+\frac{σ}{r}\frac{∂\vec{i}_θ}{∂θ}=0[/tex]
If we evaluate the derivatives in the above equation, we obtain:
[tex](p_{in}-p_{out})(cos\phi\vec{i}_r+sin\phi\vec{i}_z)-σ(cos\phi\vec{i}_r+sin\phi\vec{i}_z)\frac{d\phi}{ds}-\frac{σ}{r}\vec{i}_r=0[/tex]
If we take the dot product of this equation with the unit normal to the free surface, we obtain:
[tex](p_{in}-p_{out})=σ\left(\frac{d\phi}{ds}+\frac{1}{r}cos\phi \right)[/tex]
From this equation, we can see that the principal radii of curvature are [itex]\frac{1}{d\phi/ds}[/itex] and [itex]\frac{r}{cos\phi}[/itex]
Hope this helps.
Chet