A. Neumaier said:
It is precisely what you say. Entanglement is a mathematical property that makes only sense between distinguishable particles. They are typically distinguished by their preparation (label the particles by the beam in which they are at the beginning) before they get entangled.
Now it's indeed very confusing (not to say weird). Usually the experiments on entanglement are done with photons, which are indistinguishable bosons. Using parametric down conversion they prepare, e.g., the singlet state
$$|\Psi \rangle =\frac{1}{\sqrt{2}} [|\phi_A, \phi_B \rangle -|\phi_B,\phi_A \rangle] \otimes [|1,-1 \rangle-|-1,1 \rangle],$$
where I've factorized the states in a spatial and a helicity (in one arbitrarily given direction) part. It's a symmetrized state as it must be; ##|\phi_A \rangle## denotes a state that refers to a single-photon "wave packet" moving in A's direction. The photons are indistinguishable as it must be. What's entangled are the polarizations, i.e., if A finds ##+1##, B finds ##-1## and vice versa. You can't say who measures which individual photon. You can only say that A measures a photon and its polarization state as well as B at the location of their experimental setups (polarizer+photon detector).
I think it's very clear, if you write the state in this complete way, including the spatial (or momentum) part of the states, that the photons are indistinguishable, particularly in this case. You can't say, which individual photon has which helicity. It doesn't even make any sense to try so, because of the very preparation discussed here.
Also you don't need many-body states to have entanglement. A nice example is the Stern-Gerlach experiment which can be seen as an apparatus preparing single-particle states, where position and spin are entangled. In the above notation this single-particle state would read as follows
$$|\psi \rangle=c_1 |\phi_1 \rangle \otimes |+1/2 \rangle + c_2 |\phi_2 \rangle \otimes |-1/2 \rangle,$$
where ##|\phi_j \rangle## refers to wave packets that peak in FAPP well separated regions of space. Then the particle has a spin component +1/2 if found at location 1 and -1/2 if found in region 2.
Indistinguishable particles in a multiparticle state have no identity - they don't have a true particle existence since the physical Hilbert space for them has no position operator for one particle! This is why it is much more natural to describe them by fields, which give naturally rise to indistinguishable particle states as anonymous excitations.
If you want to treat indistinguishable particles in a 2-particle state them as two particles with an identity you need to describe them in an unphysical bigger Hilbert space of distinguished particles. There they will be automatically entangled, and remain so if the interaction is physical, since they will remain indistinguishable.
Thus forcing realistic quantum physics into a particle picture creates weirdness almost from the start.
Well, in non-relativistic QT, where you have a fixed number of particles you can describe everything in terms of appropriate symmetrized or antisymmetrized wave functions. There's no need for QFT, although of course you can use QFT in this case either, and creation and annihilation operators are just more convenient to handle than the cumbersome (anti)symmetrized wave functions of the "1st-quantization formalism".