EventHorizon91,
Let's back up a bit, and straighten out some terminology...
EventHorizon91 said:
For me, a symmetry is a coordinate transformation of the space-time labels
That is usually called a "geometric symmetry", or sometimes a "point symmetry".
or a redefinition of the fields such that the action doesn't change.
Those are usually called a "variational symmetry", usually containing the geometric symmetries as a subgroup.
There are also "contact symmetries" (lousy name) or "simple dynamical symmetries" which map solutions of the equations of motion into other solutions. They typically contain the variational symmetries.
Then there are "generalized dynamical symmetries" which (e.g.) mix the canonical position and momentum variables amongst themselves (i.e., mix the basic variables and their derivatives). Some examples of this can be seen in the symplectic transformations on phase space, often used in classical Hamiltonian dynamics to find a new set of variables in which the equations of motion are easier to solve.
(Caveat: not all authors use precisely the same definitions of these terms. Some use "dynamical symmetry" to mean a symmetry of the Hamiltonian.)
Edit: The point of the above is to help explain that in quantizing a given system, one attempts to construct a Hilbert space on which the symmetries (variational or dynamical) are all unitarily represented (i.e., such that their generators are well-defined self-adjoint operators on that Hilbert space). In general, we don't start with a standard Hilbert space, and then try to find operators. Strictly speaking, it's the other way around. However, it turns out that the usual space of square-integrable wavefunctions is suitable for a large set of cases.
I think the term symmetry generator is restricted however only to continuous symmetries (a Lie group of symmetries).
Yes, that's pretty much what "generator" means in this context. A generator is obtained by differentiating a general group element with respect to a parameter, and then setting the parameter to 0 (i.e., differentiating at the identity).
Of course, not all generators of a symmetry are observables, for example the generators of Lorentz boosts are anti-hermitian.
That's for finite-dimensional Hilbert space. If one looks more carefully, it turns out that the only unitary representations of the Lorentz group are infinite-dimensional. This leads to the inevitable necessity for quantum field theory in relativistic cases.