Serious problems with their gender

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The discussion revolves around the challenges and confusion surrounding gender identification in an online forum setting. Participants express mixed feelings about the necessity of disclosing gender, with some suggesting it could improve communication and statistics, while others believe it may lead to misunderstandings and limit the fun of playful interactions. There is a recognition that usernames and avatars often do not clearly convey gender, leading to assumptions and misidentifications. Some members share personal anecdotes about being misidentified and the irritation it can cause, but overall, many seem indifferent to the issue. The conversation highlights the complexities of gender perception in digital spaces and the varying opinions on how to address it.
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What do you think if those of us who have no serious problems with their gender, could specify that?
Personally I think these things aren't notable esp. in a science forum ( I tend to choose other UNs in other forum that my gender couldn't be known by them, but since we get to know each other in personal levels, I choose this 1 here), but sometimes members PM me and ask whether I'm female or not!:bugeye: (Note my name is a name of a girl as far as I know:-p )
I myself thought Moonbear is a male before seeing her photo!:blushing: Member photo thread couldn't help all the time since 1. all members don't post their picture. 2. Sometimes you can't recognize someone's gender by the picture:-p

Advantage:
1. Statistics of the forum.
2. Gettig rid of s/he, wo/man

Disadvantage:
1. you know how wo/man are like!
2. we can't have fun like past ( that's funny when you called a man "she" and he got angry):rolleyes:
3. It could cause a big mess in the forum!:-p

PS I don't think it would be a good suggestion, but hey who cares?:zzz:
 
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Lisa! said:
PS I don't think it would be a good suggestion, but hey who cares?:zzz:

Then why did you suggest it?
 
Moonbear said:
Then why did you suggest it?
Peraps it's only me who thinks it's not good suggestion. Let's get other people ideas anyway.:wink:
 
I'm a man. Yes I am, and I can't help but love you so. :biggrin:

(Sorry, couldn't resist, it's such a great song)
 
Tom Mattson said:
I'm a man. Yes I am, and I can't help but love you so. :biggrin:
(Sorry, couldn't resist, it's such a great song)
Super 400?o:)
 
Nah, Spencer Davis Group
 
I can imagine seeing a registration form like this:

Check all that apply

__ Male

__ Female

__ Neither

__ None of the above


and watching the philosophers implode! ;)
 
Tom Mattson said:
Nah, Spencer Davis Group

You're dating yourself, Tom!

:)

Zz.
 
Ha Ha

I'm really not though, because Spencer Davis was doing their thing before I was born. I think that 60's music is the best, despite the fact that I was born in 72.
 
  • #10
Tide said:
I can imagine seeing a registration form like this:
Check all that apply
__ Male
__ Female
__ Neither
__ None of the above

and watching the philosophers implode! ;)
:smile: It's not nice teasing the philosophers like that. :smile: And you forgot "both." We can't discriminate against the hermaphrodites.
 
  • #11
Tom Mattson said:
Nah, Spencer Davis Group

AT the cost of dating myself... I could have swore Chicago did that first...I could be wrong...

Ahhh 1972... I was touring the Mediterranean at Uncle Sam's expense.
 
  • #12
I like the suggestion. people are confused, and sometimes think I'm either a woman or an @$$
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I like tide's poll
 
  • #13
Moonbear,

And you forgot "both."

That's covered by "check ALL that apply!" :)
 
  • #14
It seems that most of people around here have serious problems with their gender! :biggrin:

Integral said:
AT the cost of dating myself... I could have swore Chicago did that first...I could be wrong...
Ahhh 1972... I was touring the Mediterranean at Uncle Sam's expense.
I was -10 years old in 1972! :rolleyes: Anyway Tom is going to sing this great song in PF chicago meeting! :cool:
 
  • #15
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I'm just a 'Dream' so I don't really have an "Age" whateverthatis just sort of been around inside this place that is A really 'fun' Splace .. .. .. sorry I don't mean these forums, as that space, but inside the Realm of the-my Imagination .. .. .. .. ..pSa Ya! oh Yes, I am A Male Rabbit, so don't call me Bunny O.K.? or I'll get angry, maybe[/color]
 
  • #16
Lisa! said:
I was -10 years old in 1972! :rolleyes:
I thought you're 23. Take much math in school?:-p
 
  • #17
Danger said:
I thought you're 23. Take much math in school?:-p
Are you drunk or just kidding?:-p

2005 -1972 = 33

-10 +33 = 23o:)
 
  • #18
Lisa! said:
Are you drunk or just kidding?:-p
2005 -1972 = 33
-10 +33 = 23o:)

Obviously, she's taken a great deal of math.:smile:

Since I'm here - like you, Lisa, my name pretty much communicates my gender, and people still sometimes don't get it. I don't really care one way or the other. If someone asks, I tell them. It's a little irritating when they decide not to believe me, because Heaven knows women don't know math or science or ever use the Internet, but it's low on my list of things to worry about.
 
  • #19
Hey, a lot of people seemed to think I was a woman back when I had a female avatar.
 
  • #20
loseyourname said:
Hey, a lot of people seemed to think I was a woman back when I had a female avatar.
It doesn't help when they abbreviate your nickname to LYN either! :-p
 
  • #21
Diane_ said:
Obviously, she's taken a great deal of math.:smile:
Since I'm here - like you, Lisa, my name pretty much communicates my gender, and people still sometimes don't get it. I don't really care one way or the other. If someone asks, I tell them.
Sometimes I think I shouldn't have chosen this username.:frown:


It's a little irritating when they decide not to believe me, because Heaven knows women don't know math or science or ever use the Internet, but it's low on my list of things to worry about.
:smile:
 
  • #22
Lisa! said:
Are you drunk or just kidding?:-p
2005 -1972 = 33
-10 +33 = 23o:)
I can't wait to see how you fill out a tax return.:biggrin:

Actually, until I pulled up the quote again, I didn't see the '-' sign. My eyes aren't that great sometimes.
 
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  • #23
Integral said:
AT the cost of dating myself... I could have swore Chicago did that first...I could be wrong...

I'm pretty sure that it's a Spencer Davis original with Steve Winwood as lead vocalist.

Regards,
George
 
  • #24
Danger said:
I can't wait to see how you fill out a tax return.:biggrin:
Actually, until I pulled up the quote again, I didn't see the '-' sign. My eyes aren't that great sometimes.
No, your eyes are only great for evil!:-p

Again, nobody is going to tell me what s/he thinks of this suggestion?
 
  • #25
I'm sorry, Lisa, I thought I'd answered that, but I guess I didn't. I don't see anything wrong with your suggestion, but it's just not something I would care that much about. If I were in charge of the board, I'd probably implement it on your request, but I doubt I'd use it. *sorry*
 
  • #26
I'm on personal terms (ie: PM's) with a couple of people who deliberately use ambiguous usernames to avoid the whole issue. This includes Lisa! who, while masquerading as a 23 year-old woman, is in fact a 37 year-old Lithuanian midget with a particular penchant for trampolines and juggling chainsaws.
 
  • #27
Danger said:
a particular penchant for trampolines and juggling chainsaws.

Simultaneously? I'd pay a quarter to see that!
 
  • #28
I didn't mention the koalas and Silly Putty. It's worth a lot more than a quarter.
 
  • #29
Thanks Diane!:smile: But I think it could help some people to know women use internet, they know science , and last but not least 'if PF is such a great and strange site, that's because of them!:rolleyes:

Danger said:
I'm on personal terms (ie: PM's) with a couple of people who deliberately use ambiguous usernames to avoid the whole issue. This includes Lisa! who, while masquerading as a 23 year-old woman, is in fact a 37 year-old Lithuanian midget with a particular penchant for trampolines and juggling chainsaws.
:eek: :rolleyes: :blushing: :cry: :devil:o:) :rolleyes: :approve: Buuut.. you had promised me not to...
 
  • #30
Moonbear said:
It doesn't help when they abbreviate your nickname to LYN either! :-p
Hmmm...
I always thought I'd pronounce "LYN" as actually L. Y. N. not Lyn.
 
  • #31
Lisa! said:
Buuut.. you had promised me not to...
:redface: I'm sorry. It just kind of slipped out. You know how it goes when I'm drinking.:redface:
 
  • #32
Lisa! said:
Again, nobody is going to tell me what s/he thinks of this suggestion?
If you want to state gender, you may do so in your personal profile, or in the location description if you want it to appear in every post.
 
  • #33
Or if we had custom titles.
 
  • #34
Diane_ said:
[snip]
Since I'm here - like you, Lisa, my name pretty much communicates my gender, [snip]
Doesn't always work (remind me, who is, or was, Nereid?)
 
  • #35
Any of the 50 sea nymph daughters of sea god Nereus?
 
  • #36
Tide said:
Any of the 50 sea nymph daughters of sea god Nereus?

It figures a guy named "Tide" would know that.
 
  • #37
Naturally - LoL! :)
 
  • #38
Never looked at it that way. I always figured that he's an expert on washing machines.
 
  • #39
loseyourname said:
Or if we had custom titles.
I miss the old "wave" titles - microwave, visible light wave, and so on. PF had those when I first started.
 
  • #40
Math Is Hard said:
..microwave, visible light wave, and so on..

Haha, that's so corny. Thank God that's gone.
 
  • #41
Nereid said:
Doesn't always work (remind me, who is, or was, Nereid?)
The person who was in charge of General Astronomy & Cosmology forum for a while.:-p Don't worry, I get what you mean.

Someone said you're a she, but from what you're saying you must be a he!:confused:
 
  • #42
Lisa! said:
Someone said you're a she, but from what you're saying you must be a he!:confused:
Just the opposite, count the number of times Nereid has been referred to as 'he', until I (or someone else) pointed out the origin of the name:
Any of the 50 sea nymph daughters of sea god Nereus
The name is unambiguous, many people said 'he'; maybe people just didn't know?
Anyway, it's all ancient history now. But here's the rest of what Diane_ said (my bold):
and people still sometimes don't get it. I don't really care one way or the other. If someone asks, I tell them. It's a little irritating when they decide not to believe me, because Heaven knows women don't know math or science or ever use the Internet, but it's low on my list of things to worry about.
And Nereid was never 'in charge' of GA&C (it's been Phobos and Janus from Day 1). :-p
 
  • #43
Nereid said:
Just the opposite, count the number of times Nereid has been referred to as 'he', until I (or someone else) pointed out the origin of the name:The name is unambiguous, many people said 'he'; maybe people just didn't know?
Anyway that's a great UN::smile:

1. 1 of the daughters of Nereus.
2. 1 of the satellites of Neptune. (Astronomy:wink:)




And Nereid was never 'in charge' of GA&C (it's been Phobos and Janus from Day 1). :-p
Oops, How sure I was!:blushing:
 
  • #44
Lisa! said:
Someone said you're a she, but from what you're saying you must be a he!:confused:
Some people are both, Lisa. (actually if you want to be politically correct, some people are neither)
 
  • #45
I didn'tknow Lisa! was capable of creating such a crappy thrread that it gets moved to GD! :eek:
 
  • #46
Actually, I think it was the direction we took the thread in after she created it. Off-topic R Us.
 
  • #47
Hah! Looks like we sucked Diane into GD! :-p :approve:
 
  • #48
get the net!
 
  • #49
Evo said:
Hah! Looks like we sucked Diane into GD! :-p :approve:
muuuwahahhahaha! Welcome to the Hotel California, Diane. :devil: :approve:
 
  • #50
I understand checkout time is different from departure time?
 
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