Advice on How to Make a Move with a Friend

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The discussion revolves around a guy seeking advice on how to initiate a romantic relationship with a friend who has shown interest in him. He struggles with making the first move despite having opportunities, and various participants suggest that he should start with a kiss or casual physical contact, like holding hands, to gauge her interest. There's a debate on whether to express feelings verbally or let actions speak for themselves, with some arguing that maintaining a sense of mystery can keep her intrigued. Participants emphasize that if she invites him over, she likely wants to spend time alone, indicating her interest. Ultimately, the consensus is that he should act soon to avoid giving the impression of disinterest.
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ok i must have missed something -- my post was in response to first post
 
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Tom McCurdy said:
ok i must have missed something -- my post was in response to first post

Yep, you did. He got the girl! http://deephousepage.com/smilies/boldpurple.gif

See, PF isn't such a bad place to get dating advice :approve:
 
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Well... here's the thing. Her parents are quite strict, and won't even let her date yet. The problem lies in the fact that she does it without her parents even knowing. If they found out, she'd be grounded for like... eternity. I don't want to press the information on them 'cause the toll will be pretty bad on her, and she'd probably end up hating me, which wouldn't help.

I don't want to see a school cousouler 'cause they won't really even try and help right now. School starts in about 3 hours, and thus they have about 1500 students to process and fix.

I shall take your advice and not approach too fast though. I guess slipping a question here and there might be the best way to work right now. Thanks.

There's no point in me talking to anyone about myself anymore. I'm just worried about her, 'cause I know I can make the right decisions. Thanks for the concern though.
 

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