jedishrfu said:
Remember that the real goal is to learn. Don't get bogged down trying to use ChatGPT to give you the correct answer.
Ok, I'm going to be respectfully completely open and honest here. This website (and those that most frequently assist on it) are WAY WAY too overboard with the whole "you have to do all the work," "don't let anything else do the work for you" "don't check your answers" "show us every single step of work you've done in the last two hours or we won't help you, and don't show us what you wrote out... waste an hour typing all of it in LaTeX or we won't help you" types of things. And yes, I've dealt with every single one of those statements at points in time in the past.
And then when someone does come along that genuinely helps me in figuring out the step that I had been stuck on, one of the higher-ups come along complaining "don't give him any information! don't help him! make him do ALL the work himself!" Then what's the point of this forum if not to help us????
Seriously, it's a waste of our time most the time, and I honestly feel it's a power-trip for the vets. If someone wants to get answers handed to them on here, what should that matter to you? Warn them in a disclosure at the TOP of the channel, not in every single message in every single thread. If they're going to short themselves like that, that's their problem, and they will pay for it when it comes time for an exam, and they fail it, because they never learned how to figure it out themselves.
But, the extreme that many of the vets go to on here gets to the point where they're no longer helpful. I mean I can use our tutor system our college gives us 3hrs/week on (I just don't like waiting in queue on it, and not a huge fan of the interface), I can go to the professor's office hours (not always an option depending on the times), I can go on Chegg, I can use AI, I mean people can use any number of sources for help. And of all those, I can say literally every single one is more helpful for me than asking questions on here (which is why I don't ask questions about homework problems on here anymore - it wastes hours and hours of my time that I don't have doing extra unnecessary work to appease vets). I've had times where I ask questions on here, and all I get is a ton more questions about the problem, with no guidance, which takes up my time. Then, I'll be asked to show every single step of my work, which takes my time. Then, I'll be asked to delve into explicit detail exactly why I'm doing something the way I'm doing it (even if I'm doing it wrong, and it's a waste of my time exploring the wrong direction I'm heading). I've had questions on here that had numerous posts over the course of literally days, with not a single shred of useful information that helped me figure out where I went wrong. And
one time, after three days of the weekend with over a dozen replies and no actual help on here for a problem I was trying to figure out, I went to my professor's office, and he made perfect sense of it to me in less than 30 seconds. Literally, 30 seconds, 45 seconds at most. Meanwhile, I put at least 2-3hrs into that thread over that weekend directly (let alone hours outside of that working on the problem itself), all for absolutely nothing.
I got all As last semester. I am in our college's honors society. I am well aware of what help is beneficial to me, and what would be hurtful. I always try to do the problem on my own first, and put a substantial amount of time (when I'm able to) working on them myself. But, if I'm stuck and feel I'm not using my time wisely, that is when I look for assistance to help me through a specific part of the problem I'm stuck on. Then, once I'm helped over that hurdle with an explanation, equation, or whatever it is, I go back to working on it myself.
The problem here a lot of the times is that you guys don't give us direct answers. We're asked tons of questions about information that goes way over our heads, or told to use such and such equation that we've never seen (with no explanation about how the new equation/rule/etc. they just brought up ties into our problem in any way whatsoever, not what step of the problem it is applicable to, etc.), instead of simply telling us the step we're going wrong on in our problem and why. It's impractical, and it's a complete waste of the problem-solvers time, all so that vets on here can feel in control. It's not helpful in most cases. It's extremely inneficient, frustrating, and it leaves the problem solver extremely discouraged that entire time.
Anyway, I know that came off as extremely critical, and it might not be applicable to you directly, and if so I sincerely apologize. I've just been a member on this board for years, and I feel over the years, it got worse and worse, to the extreme now where I don't even bother asking for help on homework problems anymore. Questions on other topics like this, sure, but homework problems, not anymore, because literally any other source I use will help me much faster, and in a far clearer way.
I really feel that board regulation needs to be modified. Again, if people want to cheat themselves out of working on something, that should be their choice, and again, they will pay for it on their exams. The people on here aren't mommy and daddy, they aren't some regulatory college board. It's supposed to be regular, kind, helpful humans on here trying to help others figure things out. But, I feel that when it comes to assistance with problem solving, it's no longer the case here. It's disheartening, as I do love this board for other things and other topics, but for homework, no, it's far, FAR too roundabout and "figure it out yourself" for me
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Back to my issue personally and my purpose for using it... before handing in my homework, I want to make sure my answers were correct. How else am I supposed to do that if not checking with a resource that has the answers??? If I wait until I turn it in and get feedback from the professor after the fact, that could be after the next exam, so then that hurts me, or they may not give enough information on my homework to help me see where I went wrong, so that doesn't help, etc. Not to mention the markdowns on homework are going to hurt my grades as well, and if I don't maintain at least a 3.7 GPA, it's going to hurt my chances/options for grad school. By the time I turn my homework in, I want to do so confident in knowing I fully understood everything, I was confident in my answers, and there wasn't anything I felt lost on that I just "hope" I get right and keep my fingers crossed.
I don't want to risk those things. I want to understand this stuff inside and out, and if I don't understand something, I just want a resource that will give me an explanation of what I'm lost on or not understanding, not ask me a ton of irrelevant questions or talk over my head with things I haven't seen yet.