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jason_m said:Or did I come here asking for an objective explanation as to what might be going wrong
In my opinion, you got exactly that. We have no reason to not be subjective about you, we can only be objective (assuming your posts are accurate). So you got an objective assessment of your situation.
The problem here is that you don't like the objective explanation.
Also, if we say "the problem is you", then that is miles better than saying "the problem is the school". Why? Because if the problem is you then you can actually fix it! If the problem is the school, then you can't do anything about it. So it is better for you to say that the problem is you and to try to make yourself better. You will benefit way more from this than by blaming it on the school and doing nothing about it (even if the problem really is the school).