jambaugh said:
the last qualifier makes for a bad definition imnsho
Which qualifier? The one about needing to know the entire future? GR is a deterministic theory, so in any GR model you
do know the entire future, so knowing where the event horizons, if any, are in the model is straightforward.
The issue, if there is one, comes when we talk about how we test whether the model matches reality. It is true that we can never know for sure that there is an event horizon in reality--we can never know for sure that the model matches reality in that respect. But we still need a term for the feature of the model in question, and "event horizon" is the term that physicists have settled on for that.
If one wants to make it absolutely clear that we are talking about the phenomenon we observe in reality, I would use the term "apparent horizon", since that basically describes what we observe in reality: a boundary around a region of spacetime into which things fall, but from which nothing is ever observed to come out. Then the issue described above can be stated as: we can never know for sure that an apparent horizon that we observe actually is an event horizon. We can construct a model in which it is, but we can never know for sure that that aspect of the model matches reality.
jambaugh said:
the future event horizon light cone of that flash that reaches the outer surface of the cloud just as it shrinks to its Schwarzschild radius will remain forever on the resulting black hole's event horizon
See my edit in the quote above. "Future light cone" is the general term for, well, the future light cone of an event: the null surface formed by the maximal future extensions of all null geodesics passing through the event. Calling it a "future event horizon" just co-opts a term which already has a different, well-defined meaning, for no good reason, since we already have the term "future light cone" for what you are talking about here.
You could say that there is a particular event at ##r = 0## in this spacetime whose future light cone is the event horizon: but that just concedes the point that not all future light cones are event horizons, only some of them.
jambaugh said:
locally, as I see it, a light cone is simply an event horizon that hasn't been bent by a central mass into this cylindrical shape. I will concede the semantic debate and call it a causal horizon if you like.
Or you could just call it a future light cone, as above. That's the standard term. I think trying to gerrymander the term "event horizon" to cover all future light cones, which is basically what you are suggesting, just obfuscates things.
As for the term "causal horizon", that is even more general, since any null surface is a causal boundary; you don't even need to consider whether that surface is part of any light cone of interest. But that also means the term is so general that it is not very useful. Usually we are not interested in
all causal boundaries, but only in particular ones that have particular properties.