The discussion revolves around observations of individuals, particularly males, spending significant time in bathrooms looking at themselves in mirrors, with one participant noting a specific instance of a male combing his hair for several minutes. This sparked a conversation about the perception of grooming habits among men and women. Participants shared their own experiences and attitudes toward personal appearance, revealing a spectrum of grooming habits from low maintenance to high maintenance. Some expressed surprise at the level of care some men take with their appearance, while others noted that it is common for both genders to engage in self-grooming. The conversation also touched on personal insecurities and societal pressures regarding looks, with some participants reflecting on their own grooming routines and the importance they place on appearance. Overall, the thread highlights varying perspectives on grooming behaviors and the social implications of self-presentation in public spaces.