Do People Regret Working Too Hard at Life's End?

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The discussion centers around the common regret expressed by the dying: "I wish I hadn't worked so hard." A palliative nurse's insights highlight that many people, particularly men, reflect on their work-life balance as they approach the end of life. Participants share personal experiences, emphasizing that while hard work can provide for families and create a comfortable life, it often comes at the cost of personal relationships and well-being. Many contributors note that the nature of work matters; those who love their jobs may not share the same regrets as those who work solely for financial gain. The conversation also touches on the importance of prioritizing family and friendships over career ambitions, with some expressing a desire for more leisure time and meaningful connections. Ultimately, the dialogue underscores the complex relationship between work, personal fulfillment, and the regrets that may arise when life is viewed in retrospect.
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turbo said:
Ivan's right. Life on the road sucks. You can be pulling in really great money, but if you have to live in motels in podunk towns and try to search out diners and truck-stops with food marginally better than fast-food, that gets old fast. Still, I did mill-work for 10 years as a process chemist, and as a lead papermaker. Lots of troubleshooting, so those jobs weren't brain-numbing like my college summer jobs on production lines in veneer mills.

Turbo, I usually had the best hotels, the best food, first-class flights, classy rental cars, and white hat treatment at all plants, and it was still as close to hell as I've ever been.

It doesn't matter if your room cost $60 or $300, living on the road is a very hard and lonely life. And in the end, even $300 hotel rooms are just stinking hotel rooms!
 
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...although I must say, while in the end nothing else matters much, flying first class does actually help a bit. Those cramped seats in coach add to the travel fatigue.
 
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Ivan Seeking said:
It doesn't matter if your room cost $60 or $300, living on the road is a very hard and lonely life. And in the end, even $300 hotel rooms are just stinking hotel rooms!
Yep. And if the high point of your day is an evening phone call to your spouse, and you have to keep working into the night, it can be a really sad life.
 

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