Do People Regret Working Too Hard at Life's End?

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The discussion centers on the common regret expressed by individuals at the end of their lives, particularly the sentiment "I wish I hadn't worked so hard." This regret is highlighted in the context of the "Top Five Regrets of the Dying," as noted by a palliative nurse. Participants share personal experiences, emphasizing that the nature of one's work and the balance between work and family significantly influence feelings of regret. Many contributors assert that working hard is not inherently negative, especially when it aligns with personal passions and allows for family time.

PREREQUISITES
  • Understanding of the "Top Five Regrets of the Dying" as outlined by palliative care professionals.
  • Familiarity with work-life balance concepts and their psychological impacts.
  • Knowledge of the implications of self-employment and flexible work arrangements.
  • Awareness of the emotional aspects of career choices and their long-term effects on personal fulfillment.
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  • Research the "Top Five Regrets of the Dying" for deeper insights into end-of-life reflections.
  • Explore strategies for achieving work-life balance, particularly in high-demand careers.
  • Investigate the psychological effects of self-employment and job satisfaction on overall well-being.
  • Learn about the importance of maintaining personal relationships and social connections throughout one's career.
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This discussion is beneficial for individuals reflecting on their work-life balance, career professionals seeking fulfillment, and anyone interested in understanding the emotional implications of their work choices as they relate to personal happiness and relationships.

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turbo said:
Ivan's right. Life on the road sucks. You can be pulling in really great money, but if you have to live in motels in podunk towns and try to search out diners and truck-stops with food marginally better than fast-food, that gets old fast. Still, I did mill-work for 10 years as a process chemist, and as a lead papermaker. Lots of troubleshooting, so those jobs weren't brain-numbing like my college summer jobs on production lines in veneer mills.

Turbo, I usually had the best hotels, the best food, first-class flights, classy rental cars, and white hat treatment at all plants, and it was still as close to hell as I've ever been.

It doesn't matter if your room cost $60 or $300, living on the road is a very hard and lonely life. And in the end, even $300 hotel rooms are just stinking hotel rooms!
 
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...although I must say, while in the end nothing else matters much, flying first class does actually help a bit. Those cramped seats in coach add to the travel fatigue.
 
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Ivan Seeking said:
It doesn't matter if your room cost $60 or $300, living on the road is a very hard and lonely life. And in the end, even $300 hotel rooms are just stinking hotel rooms!
Yep. And if the high point of your day is an evening phone call to your spouse, and you have to keep working into the night, it can be a really sad life.
 

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