The discussion confirms that the plates of a capacitor exert a significant attractive force on each other due to opposite electrical charges, with calculations indicating forces as high as 10^8 newtons for certain configurations. This force arises from the electrostatic interaction between the charged plates, which can lead to mechanical stresses in the capacitor's structure. The conversation also highlights that real capacitors can differ from idealized models, particularly regarding their mechanical properties and the effects of dielectrics. Explosions or implosions of capacitors can occur due to these forces, especially if there are failures leading to arcing. Overall, the mechanical implications of these forces are crucial for understanding capacitor design and safety.