abrogard said:
I'm accustomed to imagine travelers in a spaceship doing 0.8c thinking everything is fine, poor deluded souls, due soon to be squashed out of existence...
Then you're imagining incorrectly. The travelers in the spaceship are perfectly normal. They
appear length contracted to you, but that's just an appearance. If very sensitive instruments were attached to everything in the spaceship (but using no information from outside the spaceship), they would detect nothing to indicate that the spaceship was moving.
abrogard said:
to imagine we are those deluded souls... a fraction of a knot away from infinite mass... living in the treacle of almost stopped time...
But that's the claim, is it?
Not if the bit about "infinite mass" and "almost stopped time" is included. Nobody is claiming that we have almost infinite mass or that our time is almost stopped. What we're saying is, again, that if you are imagining those things happening when something moves at close to light speed relative to something else, you are imagining it incorrectly.
abrogard said:
if those speeds change or stop as they must given sufficient time dilation
Again you are imagining it incorrectly. If very sensitive measurements were made of all the atoms in the spaceship, using instruments inside the spaceship (and moving with it), they would show no change whatsoever in the atoms.
abrogard said:
perhaps like a phase change.
No. A phase change is a physical change. Just moving at high speed relative to something else is not.
abrogard said:
you seem to be saying it is all imaginary
No, we are saying that it's just an appearance; something moving very fast relative to you
appears to you to be length contracted and time dilated, but that's just an appearance.
And in fact it's not even a direct "appearance", in the sense that what you actually see (the light rays actually reaching you) from an object moving very fast relative to you is
not length contraction and time dilation as given by the usual formulas. You see the object rotated (Google "Penrose-Terrell rotation"), and how you see its clock ticking, relative to yours, depends on which direction it's moving relative to you (if it's moving towards you, you see its clock ticking faster than yours--Google "relativistic doppler effect"). The length contraction and time dilation that are usually talked about are
calculations that you make from what you directly observe, to correct for the light travel-time delay of the light rays reaching your eyes (or instruments).
abrogard said:
where does the spaceship finish and the 'other' world begin?
There is no "other world". There are just objects moving relative to each other, and light rays traveling between them and carrying information about them. They all exist in one world.