if it's not photon - photon interaction then it must be the photon itself which causes the interference, it interferes with itself,at least I'm lead to believe(I have been wrong in the past and could so easily be so again) is it just me or are you unhappy with this. I can't help thinking that there's something simple there but because of the nature of light itself it won't let us see it, maybe I just need to do a bit more digging or research?
Could I not as easlily say if it behaves like a wave unless we view it directly then it behaves more like a particle and the interference is lost is merely just the act of the detector itself causing or making the wave travel through that slit and not both(affecting it in some way, that forces the path, it is still a wave but it has been diverted repolarized or whatever you want to call it by the detector into that path and that path alone. If this is so then maybe it is simply an effect of the interaction and not some mysterious inderterminency? Am I way off here, I usually am?
Since wherever you place the detector the light hits the screen in the same place because of the same effective interaction? I think I need to dig deeper maybe