TheStatutoryApe said:
You've never met me on the road, as far as I know, so don't jump the gun.
I'm going purely by what you've posted. What else am I to do ?
For one I don't drive slowly. Though the jerks going 100mph until they're about to stuff themselves into my trunk might think so. Incase you aren't familiar the speed limit around here is 65mph and most people drive at least 10mph above that.
That's all well and good. But
even if you're above the speed limit, and there's somebody behind you who obviously wants (or needs) to go faster, you should move as long as it's safe for you to do so. If you think you're entitled to the fast lane (when the other lanes are empty)
just because you're going "fast enough", in your opinion, you are wrong.
If I'm driving at 80 in the fast lane, where I ought to be at that speed, then it's not my fault if that isn't fast enough for some jerk who feels like getting chummy with my bumper.
As I said, I don't condone tailgating, it is dangerous. At the same time, you are decidedly in the wrong for failing to yield to faster traffic. You are not some vigilante pace car put there to enforce the limit (or your notion of an "acceptable" speed).
Secondly most of these people like to do this in traffic. That is to say there's no easy way of getting out of their way because I have cars to all sides of me and even if I did he would just wind up tail gating the person that was a couple car lengths in front of me and I'm now stuck in the slower of the lanes.
Fine. Here's how I would break it down.
A) There is absolutely nowhere for you to go because there's a solid wall of slow moving traffic in the slow lane.
- In this case, I would not fault you at all for failing to move over, and I would agree that you are the aggrieved party here.
B) There is room for you to move over, yet you decide to stay in the fast lane, rationalising that the "idiot" behind you will just get stuck behind the car in front of you anyway.
- Here, you're wrong. If somebody is driving dangerously, e.g. by tailgating, any sane driver will immediately tell you it is
always better to be behind that person than in front of him. At least you can control the situation by driving defensively and adjusting the following distance for your own safety. And so what if you end up in slower traffic for an instant ? You can always move over into the fast lane once a gap opens up, right ? Or is this a private race in your head where you're concerned with your position ?
If the tailgater now gets stuck behind traffic (the car that was originally in front of you) that refuses to yield to him, then it's just too bad, and you can have a jolly good time laughing about it. But in this case,
your safety will be in your hands because now the danger is in front of you rather than directly behind you.
I have the suspicion that you would refuse to give way solely because of some misplaced pride or sense of entitlement to your "place" in traffic. This is wrong.
If I take my foot off the gas and slow down it's as much to annoy him as it is to make sure that I'm as far behind the person in front of me as possible if I have to slam on my brakes and hopefully he won't rearend me, destroy my vehicle, and possibly make me hit the person infront of me, whose damages I would be responsable for by the laws around here. When I speed up I don't gun my car and I don't tailgate the person in front of me I just want the jerk to know that I was going slow for a reason. And if I tap my brakes and it freaks him out GOOD. At least I'm not breaking for real and he's not plowing into the back end of my car which aside from a bit of a jump in heart rate would probably land us both in the hospital. If that jerk wants to risk getting into an accident because he's in a damn hurry he sure as hell better not be risking my neck too.
I have no problems with a gentle brake check (when you have nowhere else to go to escape the situation). I myself have used this when the slow lane has no gaps for me to escape to, and usually, the tailgater "gets it". But when a gap opens up, I always signal and move over. I worry that you will not be so careful.
BTW, I was not addressing the brake-check issue in my post. I was saying that speeding to prevent the guy from undertaking you (which you claimed you would do) is wrong and dangerous. This essentially amounts to playing chicken with him in traffic. In any case, either of two things is true. a) If there's enough of a gap between you and the car in front of you to permit you to speed to prevent him from merging, either you were going too slowly in the fast lane to begin with, or b) by speeding out of spite, you've now closed the gap to the "innocent" car in front of you to a dangerous level, congratulations. Ironically, you're now tailgating that car in front of you.
