NTL2009 said:
To be honest, I'm not sure I agree with that either! You seem to have just repeated your previous comments - should I repeat mine? It looks to be getting circular?
I hadn't read this post the first time around, NTL2009. Wow!
I think maybe relaxing a bit and just focusing on the issues would be best (and not personalizing anything, as I sensed). I could be wrong, but you seem to have some anger in your tone and an "aggressive" way of speaking. That's how the tone sounded to me on a subjective level. So, I just want to say up front that I'm interested in peaceful dialogue and hope to keep things friendly - even if there is intellectual disagreement.
Alright, with that being said, I shall respond:
And as I said before, stop thinking in terms of what the average person does - take the "you" out of that, and substitute "the average person in this study - who is not me".
I understand the underlying logic, NTL2009, and l think we're probably actually in agreement already with each other on many things.
Nevertheless, I think you can take away the useful insights that Ramsey offers, while acknowledging his flaws. For me, the most useful thing was seeing how susceptible human beings are to overspending when they have plastic and other "detached" forms of payment.
I promise this will be the last Ramsey clip I post, by the way. Don't want you to get too steamed up over there - LOL. I just think it has a pretty ingenious description of how the psychology of paying with cash gives humans a sense of a proper value exchange taking place. He talks about his daughter (Rachel Cruze, who is also a personal finance media personality) mentioning to him that as kids we develop a sense of a fair value exchange from trading things (e.g., trading marbles, trading baseball cards, trading toys, etc. with our friends). You get that sense because you have to give something to another person in order to get something back. Even if bartering is replaced with paper and coin monies in modern society, there's still a sense of that transaction preserved, as you need to physically give away money in order to receive shoes, food, or whatever you want in return. But when you pay with plastic, you give your plastic card to the cashier and then you
physically get that card back and then whatever item you just purchased. Psychologically, it may leave you with the impression that you got a good deal or that nothing/not as much was "lost" in that transaction. Dan Ariely, the behavioral economist from Duke University, who talks about this in the clip I linked to earlier, offers a lot of other psychological insights into how non-cash transactions get us to loosen up our spending. But, returning to Ramsey's clip for a moment, he mentions a famous MIT FMRI study that showed that people buying things with cash had their pain sensors activated in their brain, whereas those paying with cash lacked those sensors firing. I thought that was pretty neat.
As I said earlier, psychology and biology are wired against us in the fight to spend properly using a CC (e.g., Ramsey mentions people spending 78% more on fast food after credit cards were allowed as a form of payment there). It's not an impossible fight to win - just hard, as we can easily be deceived by ourselves!
Add to that the genius marketing of corporations and credit card companies to get you to spend more and it'll be a constant uphill fight. Take a look at this short 3 minute, 42 seconds clip of how credit card companies "tricked" consumers into using credit cards in Thailand, despite a strong aversion to them:
It's not impossible to win - just a hassle and Dave asks whether it's worth it for 1, 2, or 3% cash back, given:
a.) easier ways of earning that money (e.g., mowing lawns)
b.) the potential to overspend (often on frivolous purchases, which are depreciating assets vs. saving that money and putting it into investments that turn into appreciating assets), in which psychology and biology are wired against us
That's really all Dave is saying. And I found it a very helpful insight. I personally try to pay in cash as much as possible. I also agree with you that distinguishing your necessities from your wants is a good practice that will help a person spend properly. I've begun doing that recently in a spreadsheet for all of my purchases (planned or already bought). I also agree that Dave is too extreme in saying that we should avoid credit cards at all costs, but I'm glad that he's done a good job in laying out all the potential pitfalls we have to consider.
-- more from you about 'studies' that I don't care about, and you shouldn't either...
So stop that!
This is what I meant when I said you were possibly personalizing things and using an overly aggressive in tone, NTL2009. I assume that everyone is a capable thinker and can decide for themselves whether to accept an argument position or not and don't wish to personalize things or become "hostile" to push a point I want to make.
It's easy - here is my thought process...
I think we're probably in agreement about the process (it's absolutely logical to do what you proposed), but just maybe not on the level of difficulty involved.
Ramsey says personal finance is 20% head knowledge and 80% behavior. It's really the discipline oftentimes that people struggle with and not the knowledge of how best to manage one's finances. Most people probably know that upsizing to a large drink when you don't need those extra 10 (or whatever it is) oz. is a bad buy even if it's only .25 more (or whatever it is). We probably know that we don't need a ton of stuff and that we'd be more financially secure and prosperous in the long-term if we saved on those purchases and invested that money. The difficulty comes from the marketing involved to get us to spend more, the money value detachment problem of credit cards, and our own impulse control. Feynman said the easiest person to fool is yourself in science. The same may be true, too, when it comes to personal finance and people rationalizing poor spending decisions or not even consciously realizing they're being influenced by the money value detachment problem.
You can think of Dave's CC philosophy as "training wheels" to learning to spend wisely. When a person feels comfortable discarding those training wheels is up to them. Some might need them longer than others; I'm currently using them that way. Similarly, you can think of his more conservative CC advice as a safety mechanism too. If you're not sure how good your decision making is, then use the cash over a card just to be safe.
(I'll re: more later.)