To find the area element in cylindrical coordinates, one must first define the two-dimensional object of interest, as the coordinate system is three-dimensional. The area element can be expressed in Cartesian coordinates as Adxdy + Bdxdz + Cdydz, with A, B, and C being functions of x, y, and z. In cylindrical coordinates, the transformations for x, y, and z lead to specific expressions for differentials, enabling the calculation of area elements. The discussion highlights that while rdrdθ is a valid area element, additional elements that incorporate cos(θ) and sin(θ) can be derived through careful manipulation of the differentials. Understanding these relationships is crucial for accurately calculating area elements in cylindrical and spherical coordinate systems.