zomgwtf said:
This discussion has gone way off course IMO. Allow me to reiterate, you are BORN A MALE OR FEMALE BY DEFINITION under NORMAL circumstances.
Dogma.
There are of course chromosomal disorders etc. which may make it difficult to determine the sex. If you want to run around saying that you are sexless then in my mind you're not even WORTH being human.
That's okay, I don't 'identity' as human either. I just don't identify.
You go against the very nature
Naturalistic fallacy.
of being a living organism on this planet
You know the vast majority of species have no sexes right?
and it's a real shame that you feel the need for this just because of your own insecurities.
Hey, you're the one who desperately needs an 'identity', stop jabbering about insecurity of people who don't need to find their 'identity'.
However just because you have these insecurities don't expect the rest of the world to lay down and go heads over heels for you to accommodate you in new legislature etc.
Why? The legislature simply
lies? The laws in this country provide for gender, and not sex on that paper. It is a right I have as a citizen to have my 'gender identity' as opposed to my 'sex' on it. The law however assumes that all citizens have such a gender identity, a thing which is hardly true. The paper lies and technically the law gives me the full right to say I've neither.
I really don't care what you think about yourself or that you feel like you think that you should be a girl. As I said before that's a PERSONAL problem and maybe you should go see a psychologist (especially instead of trying to reaffirm your feelings on a forum.)
As I said a thousand times before, I don't think
anything about myself. And neither does the topic.
The topic was about a person
without a gender identity, or an identity as 'neuter', that could also be true. People can call me whatever gender they want, it doesn't hit me. Likewise I don't subconsciously place other people into binary genders, genders are simply irrelevant to me in interaction.
As for the 'self/identity' crisis we have going on. Well it has been mentioned here that 'identity' does not exist on the basis that people can't prove to other people their own identity. Well if that's the case then I'm going to start taking names and eliminating people in MY world. Because I PERSONALLY know I have an identity and a self and if everyone else doesn't have one then that means they are all part of MY OWN self or they are just pretend 'robots' or what have you. I don't like this so I'm going to kill them all, starting with the people who think that the world should accommodate them for non-sense. I will probably decide to leave the girls I consider to be sexy however... force my identity onto ("in") them.
Maybe you know that, maybe you don't. The point is, you can't prove that you know it too.
To address the 'where's the line' problem that I brought up. I think that it doesn't need to be a solidly defined line at this very moment in time.
It's a handy way to think if your world view encounters countless contradictions yes.
Mine is simpler, I simply see no reason at all to not let people change their phaenotype if they don't like it by whatever means they can; no limit.
It's not like I can see the future and decide every little thing that's going to happen and when the line of accomodation gets passed... a little rediculous? The line should be decided as life goes on and for a person to decide that he doesn't want to have a sex and be accommodated for that is passing the line. We already accommodate for the trangenders of the world, it's even though of as rude to stare at them or talk about them when you see them at the mall. 'The have feelings too'.
There shouldn't be a line unless it's on a singularity. I don't believe in genders because it's theoretically, as much as practically possible to establish a gradient, also, we can't even define what the polar extremes are, what is the epitome of masculinity or femininity? I don't believe in placing lines at arbitrary points without a singularity, neither rationality and consciously, nor subconsciously. And I don't think you do either. You don't know
where the line is, you couldn't point it out. If I gave you several intermits, you couldn't tell for yourself where female starts and male ends. You can't tell where modifications of phaenotypes stop, you can recognise the end points, sure, but as soon as you come close to that line, you don't know it any more. Where does black start and white end? Obviously on #7F7F7F but if I showed you that shade of grey, it would depend on your mood.
It's a
cognitive illusion, you're evolved to subconsciously class people into genders for an obvious reason of course, that doesn't mean they exist. It takes a single SRY gene to change a gender, human beings are simply evolved to pay a ridiculous attention to those small details. If you take away your SRY gene, you're supposedly 'female', even though you're genetically next to identical to what you are now. People, genders, chairs, wood, it doesn't exist. What exists is oxygen, carbon, hydrogen, electrons, protons, and those can simply come together in arbitrary combinations which your mind abstracts from reality. You can either be primitive and live by your instincts, or be a rational being and go against nature and overrule those instincts with sapient thought.