I think one of the things not so evident in David Tong's notes, but that suprised mentioned in post #3, is that a curved background is not only a "consistency condition", but for small background curvatures, it is also a "solution" of string theory in the sense that it is a coherent state of gravitons on a flat background. This is discussed on p27 of Uranga's http://www.ift.uam.es/paginaspersonales/angeluranga/Lect.pdf
The other thing that may be useful is that GR can, in part (I'm not sure how much), be treated as a field theory on flat spacetime. This point of view is given in Straumann's
http://arxiv.org/abs/astro-ph/0006423 .