Girlfriend talking to a previous love interest

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A user expresses frustration over discovering their girlfriend has been in contact with an ex, despite her claims of not speaking to him. The situation escalates as the girlfriend plans a trip with a team that includes the ex, intensifying feelings of betrayal. The user grapples with whether to confront her about the perceived lies, while others in the discussion emphasize the importance of trust and communication in relationships. They caution against snooping and suggest addressing the issue directly but calmly. The conversation highlights the complexities of trust, jealousy, and the need for open dialogue in navigating relationship challenges. Ultimately, the user finds reassurance in the girlfriend's explanation that the communication was solely for logistical purposes related to the competition, allowing them to move past the incident.
  • #31
It's good to know that there was nothing going on between them. The amount of cheating stories I've read online is depressive.
 
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  • #32
dreamLord said:
It's good to know that there was nothing going on between them. The amount of cheating stories I've read online is depressive.

Well keep in mind, what you read online is a skewed sample. Rarely will someone take the time to post, "My significant other is beloved to me, he/she always thinks of me first and treats me like a queen/king. I can't imagine a better life that the one I have with my mate!"
 
  • #33
Of course - I was just talking about how when you read something online like this situation it's almost certain that something fishy is going on / has happened in the past.
 
  • #34
lisab said:
Well keep in mind, what you read online is a skewed sample. Rarely will someone take the time to post, "My significant other is beloved to me, he/she always thinks of me first and treats me like a queen/king. I can't imagine a better life that the one I have with my mate!"
Lol lisab you got to use facebook more often then.
 
  • #35
WannabeNewton said:
Lol lisab you got to use facebook more often then.

Indeed WBN
 
  • #36
WannabeNewton said:
Lol lisab you got to use facebook more often then.

Oh yeah, I forgot how full FB is of all that stuff! It's all Shiny Happy People Land.
 

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