Next time, you could say to your girlfriend that her e-mail was open on your computer and you noticed the guy's name and ask her if they're in contact again. That way you don't go snooping into someone's business and still get to address the issue.So micromass, lets say I didn't read it. I would never know this is happening, and then what? I guess I would be happier not knowing, but at the same time I would be with someone who is lying to me and not even know it. How can I trust her?