As someone who has been in physics for way too long, I've been asked this type of question many times! (If only I get $1 for every...) It is one reason I wrote on the
shortcomings of our human eyesight, because many people who asked me such questions always used the fact that these things can't be "seen". And I find it interesting that the logical fallacy that is inherent in this question is either missed, or has not been used.
I may have read too many Martin Gardner's mathematical games book, but this is nothing more than the Liar's Paradox. The Liar's paradox tells a story of a liar who says "Everything I say is a lie".
So then, if that statement is true, then his claim that "Everything I said is a lie" must also be a lie, and that means that he's been telling the truth. But if he's been telling the truth, then "Everything I say is a lie" must be true, so he has been lying... and so on and so on.
How does this apply here? So someone comes up to me and says "What we all know isn't real. Nothing in this world reflects the actual reality."
If that statement is true, then by
its own rule, the claim that "What we all know isn't real. Nothing in this world reflects the actual reality" is also not the reality. Consequently, it means that what we know is real and that there is reality, which allows that statement to be true,... and so on and so on.
Somehow, when you explain this paradox to these people, I don't think they get it.
The other issue, and this is a very common issue, that is related to this is the issue of defining when something "exist". I think most people do not realize that everything that we detect is based on a series of properties. We define an electron by its mass, charge, spin, etc... so a series of characteristics define an entity to be an electron. You can do the same with, say, your mother. Based on your visual observation of her features, her voice, her demeanor, etc...etc., you conclude that that entity is your mother. This is the ONLY means that we have to say that something exists.
So what does it mean when these people say that something isn't real, or doesn't exist? Are they denying that when I release a ball from the ceiling of my house, that the ball doesn't fall to the floor? That this isn't real? How would someone know that there is another underlying reality beyond what we can physically access? Isn't such a statement based on speculation that isn't supported by any physical evidence in the first place? Isn't it a cruel and an unusual punishment to attack science using an unverified conjecture?
Seeing something with your eyes isn't the criteria for something to exist, even though having a
single trapped strontium atom emitting visible light is very convincing and very cool. Whenever we get question like this, it is necessary that we question the questioner back, because higlighting these vague, undefined, and logically-problematic aspect of the question is exactly how the question should be tackled.
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