Swamp Thing said:
Maybe the right description of tunnelling is, "collapse due to interaction, 'beyond' the barrier and despite the existence of a barrier"
I don't really think that sentence makes sense unless you say "measurement of the location of a particle
due to interaction,
'beyond' the barrier and
despite the existence of a barrier"
But I'd still describe that as "a measurement of tunnelling" rather than "tunnelling" itself. But, as I think we've established, it's all a little moot, and to be honest, I care a little less every time we go around in a circle about this. But perhaps we should stop using the word "tunnelling" at all, since it clearly causes a lot of angst.

(The smiley is for Nugatory

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But I think most agree in this thread that whether or not you require measurement to say that tunnelling has occurred, that measurement has not occurred due to interactions with the barrier, per the OP.
(As an aside: this thread has been an interesting exercise for me: In nuclear physics, we often picture tunnelling very classically. For alpha decay, say, you picture an alpha particle sitting in the potential vibrating around, hitting the barrier, mostly reflecting off, but each time there's some probability for it to get through, and for the parent nucleus to "decay". But to know whether or not that decay has occurred, some de-coherence/measurement needs to occur. So, presumably, a toy universe that contains only one
241Am atom would never actually see it decay. Rather, you'd be in a superposition of
237Np+##\alpha## and
241Am. Which I suppose is always true anyway. And this is different to fusion again, too, since fusion involves coupling to many internal degrees of freedom, so in some sense, there is an interaction (near) the barrier there.)