Is Adultery Worse Than Pre-Marital Sex?

[Andy]

The smartest thing to do is not cheat, the second smartest thing to do is not get caught.

arildno are you a swinger?

 

[EnumaElish]

arildno are you a swinger?

Aren't all primates? Or were you referring to the swingout option in a health insurance plan?

 

[arildno]

arildno are you a swinger?

I prefer swish to swing.

 

[Lapin Dormant]

Given that the sexual act is one in which emotional bonding is occurring, time of partenering becomes more destructive if, eventually, it is sure of ending, so it would be more emotively healthy to try to wait for the right person and then partener to bond emotionally.

For myself, in my personal belief system, I see Adultery as Any Sex outside of Marriage, including pre-marital, so the reality, for me, is different to the rest/most of the opinons expressed by the other posters.

Anyone can, reasonably speaking, practise whatever they want, so long as they accept the consequences of their actions, & respect their Parteners, properly.

The emotive disruptiveness of separating from a Previoulsy attached partener is, can be, very telling, for the rest of your life, emotionally and physically and intellectually, so choosing carefully is a Good move, only my opinion. (OMO)

Personally I would rather be married, but there seem to be No other Available rabbits, in my current field, then again, in my dreams, YeehaW.

LD
(Listens to sounds of a Thumping foot rapido, apres ca, je vais me coucher et dormir[/color])

 

[chup]

Adultery is caused by no sex AFTER marriage.

 

[Evo]

Adultery is caused by no sex AFTER marriage.

Sorry, that just struck me as funny. Yes, it is a major contributor.

 

[Andy]

Nice one chup, think we might like you.

 

[Kalimaa23]

Adultery is caused by no sex AFTER marriage.

Well, I wouldn't say that it's the cause, but they are corrolated.
After all no sex in a relationship usually is a tell tale sign of other problems...

 

[Andy]

Originally posted by lazy rabbit
Given that the sexual act is one in which emotional bonding is occurring,

I beg to differ on this point. As far as I am concerned sex can be just plain old sex. Do you see prostitutes getting emotionally attached? Making love is where bonding occurs.

 

[Lapin Dormant]

I beg to differ on this point. As far as I am concerned sex can be just plain old sex. Do you see prostitutes getting emotionally attached? Making love is where bonding occurs.

Maybe some of them do, but they too learn to Harden their Hearts against it, is that what you want to do, harden your heart?

And Prostitutes getting emotionally attached? while they are working, isn't that a Bit like saying ALL bartenders MUST become Alcoholics?

Aside from that, I seem to recall that I had said it was in the "time of partnering" so the bonding is usually from repetitive encounters with the same person, prostitutes usually do not do that, unless they can stay emotionally unattached to that client, then they have them as one of their "regulars" or Johns.

"Just Plain Old Sex" someone sounds Bored, in the Bedroom.

 

[Lapin Dormant]

And after this Le Lapin va dormier! Saluté!

Adultery is caused by no sex AFTER marriage.

Funny, cause most of the complaints I've Heard of, are of No Sex During the Marriage, what goes on after the Marriage is entirely up to the Individuals, so long as the Divorce Papers are in. (OMO)

 

[ron damon]

there's nothing wrong with sex before marriage and there's nothing worse than sex after it (with someone else)

 

[Andy]

Originally posted by lazy rabbit
Maybe some of them do, but they too learn to Harden their Hearts against it, is that what you want to do, harden your heart?

And Prostitutes getting emotionally attached? while they are working, isn't that a Bit like saying ALL bartenders MUST become Alcoholics?

Aside from that, I seem to recall that I had said it was in the "time of partnering" so the bonding is usually from repetitive encounters with the same person, prostitutes usually do not do that, unless they can stay emotionally unattached to that client, then they have them as one of their "regulars" or Johns.

"Just Plain Old Sex" someone sounds Bored, in the Bedroom.

Plain old sex is boring though, making love is where the magic happens.

You said

Given that the sexual act is one in which emotional bonding is occurring,

As far as I am concerned there is a huge difference between sex and making love, and anyone that has experienced the two would understand what i mean.

Oh, and bartenders only handle the drinks they don't drink them, so that was a bad example to use.

 

[Lapin Dormant]

Plain old sex is boring though, making love is where the magic happens.
As far as I am concerned there is a huge difference between sex and making love, and anyone that has experienced the two would understand what i mean.
Oh, and bartenders only handle the drinks they don't drink them, so that was a bad example to use.

"Plain old sex" what would be the point of it if you knew there was a way to make it better, why would you practise that which B-O-R-E-S you? if the Idea of 'Making Love' is your better thing, then again you too must realize that it is MUCH better, easier to make Love to/with someone you know a Little bit about, like a Female 'Friend' Right? That Comes from BONDING emotionally, over time.
(can't you tell? yet)

So Yes, I do know the differences, and perhaps understand the emotives of it slightly better, perhaps not, as yours (emotions) are just for you.

As for the Bartenders, have know quite a few who were Alcoholics, so 'handle the drink' is what some of them (try to) do.

As for prostitutes, that is why you pay them, so they will not remain, as in 'attached/attachable' to you, emotionally or otherwise.

 

[Lapin Dormant]

Le Lapin faisant Quoi?

You would also need to remember that Woman have Sex cycles too, at a time they have those feelings sometimes much stronger then at other times, so the opportunities of "Plain Old Sex" and Making Love Passionately, require some willingness to participate through those, long term, with her, if He can find a Mate willing to that path, and then remembering 'trying to be Romantic' spontaneous to her Knowledge, without her reminding you, simple things sometimes, helps her feel a Bond too, emotively.


LD
Les[/color] Lapines[/color] Sont 'Super Fun'![/color]

 

[Andy]

When i say plain old sex i am talking about having sex even though you can't really be bothered to put that much effort into it, we've all done it so don't try and say that you havent. Everyone needs a quick release from all that built up tension.

Who said anything about sex boring me? I am still young enough to not need viagra.

Anyway being a Rabbit you wouldn't know what i mean anway, how passionate can you get when hopping off one doe and onto another?

 

[Lapin Dormant]

can't talk busy Hopping, on, and off, and on, and off, and

When i say plain old sex i am talking about having sex even though you can't really be bothered to put that much effort into it, we've all done it so don't try and say that you havent. Everyone needs a quick release from all that built up tension.

No effort? you mean leaving it up to her to acomplish or finish it all?

Who said anything about sex boring me? I am still young enough to not need viagra.

The quote on top seems to tell a slightly different story, perhaps.

"Viagra" what's that?

Anyway being a Rabbit you wouldn't know what i mean anway, how passionate can you get when hopping off one doe and onto another?

You wouldn't know.

LD
Heh-Heh-Heh Hops...On? or off? [/color]

 

[Andy]

No effort? you mean leaving it up to her to acomplish or finish it all?

Well if she doesn't mind, if she does i just slip some rohypnol into her drink!

You can't have that much room in your tent anyway can you?

 

[Lapin Dormant]

Well if she doesn't mind, if she does i just slip some rohypnol into her drink!

Am I ever glad I am a Male Rabbit, with the likes of you running around, using drugs, to get at Girls...someone of them ought to cut off your leg, now that it would be a "Lucky Foot" for some poor unsuspecting Innocent young Virginal Female.

Then Again, if you drug her, and you shouldn't, then you will have to do ALL of the work, just like us 'good at it' Rabbits have to do, without the drugs.

You can't have that much room in your tent anyway can you?

Tent? what the Heck do you think I am, a Tent, that is for Sissified Rabbits, not real Male ones, like myself, I have a Sumptuous Warren, many rooms, and a Bathing area to boot, turtle made me put it in.


LD
Did you know that female rabbits can have only one orgasm at a time, that is why we males 'Bunny Hop' keep going till we have one, too[/color]

 

[Norman]

some poor unsuspecting Innocent young Virginal Female.

You know, I have never met a single one of these kind of women before... I wonder if they even exist?

 

[Lapin Dormant]

You know, I have never met a single one of these kind of women before... I wonder if they even exist?

They Do, I can assure you, (I know a Few) But you are TOO OLD!

 

[Norman]

They Do, I can assure you, (I know a Few) But you are TOO OLD!

26 is too old huh? I wonder what my 32 year old wife would think of that...

 

[Norman]

some poor unsuspecting Innocent young Virginal Female.

Oh, I get it... it is a word trick... he said FEMALE not WOMEN... maybe these you innocent girls should wait a couple years before considering these kinda questions... and what is a person speaking like you are talking to these girls for... very suspicious...

 

[Lapin Dormant]

26 is too old huh? I wonder what my 32 year old wife would think of that...

Probably the same thing as her 12 year old daughter, TOO OLD!

Isn't the stat for these day somehweres in the neighbourhood of fifteen, you don't think that that is TOO young, for you? @ 26?

 

[Lapin Dormant]

Oh, I get it... it is a word trick... he said FEMALE not WOMEN... maybe these you innocent girls should wait a couple years before considering these kinda questions... and what is a person speaking like you are talking to these girls for... very suspicious...

And Just what is Wrong with a Lapin, speaking to a Girl, whatever her age? Huh Buddy?

what is supicious about that?