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Kerrie said:Can we get a clone of this guy? His wife is one lucky lady!![]()
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I think it's worth mentioning, because the wrong impression may have been given overall, that there are plenty of open-minded men in science who are excellent mentors for women (and men). I've been fortunate to have found several of them to work with along the way. I don't want to give the impression that all male scientists are evil bigots, as that stereotype is just as unfair to the men as the stereotypes we are struggling to fight as women. The problem is more that, especially among the more senior scientists, the existence of sexism is not a rare anomaly, and it is still tolerated. To some extent, this is because the lower-ranking men are just as afraid to confront them as are the women because these are people who have a lot of influence in how departments are run, making editorial decisions for publications, nominating people for awards, etc.
One shift I have seen recently, and am very happy to see being supported, at least in my own institution, is replacing the annoying old tradition of men applying for a faculty position, and then the university finding a position for their wife. In that old tradition, the opposite rarely happened of a woman being the primary applicant and the university scrambling to find a position for her husband in order to recruit her. Often, the woman is actually the stronger scientist of the pair and departments scramble to come up with money to make her an offer, but there always carried with it the stigma that she got the job because she was just part of the package to hire her husband. What is starting to replace this now is I've seen women insisting on applying for positions independently of their husbands and we even had one husband/wife couple competing for the same position. However, it's tough for couples to both be in academics. When positions are so few and far between, usually one or the other has to sacrifice and choose a lesser position or lesser department or work in the other's lab just so they can live in the same state. It's also not uncommon for scientists to marry other scientists. Once you hit grad school, your social circle starts to get pretty limited. Traditionally, the woman has followed the man's career rather than the other way around, and that's what needs to start changing.