The discussion centers around whether using affectionate terms like "hun" or "babe" towards someone of the opposite sex is considered sexist, particularly in professional or casual interactions. A participant recounted an experience where a contractor lost a job after using terms like "hun" and "sweetie," viewing it as unprofessional and patronizing. The conversation highlights varying perceptions of such terms, with some individuals feeling comfortable using them among friends while others find them offensive or inappropriate when used by acquaintances. Cultural differences also play a role, as some regions commonly use terms of endearment without intending offense. The dialogue touches on personal preferences regarding names and terms of endearment, emphasizing that context and familiarity are crucial in determining whether such language is acceptable or perceived as sexist. The thread also humorously explores the nuances of language and regional accents, further complicating the discussion on what constitutes appropriate or offensive language.
Somehow, "Rusty" pops to mind as something someone named Russ might have a problem with.
When he's old and his joints don't work like they used to, we'll call him rusty pops (unfortunately, by then I'll be just as slow, so I'm not sure I'll be able to run away quickly enough after calling him that to avoid retribution).