Handwavy, but more detailed answer. If you put several water molecules side by side, they will get linked by hydrogen bonds. Resulting four membered ring is highly symmetrical (even if not flat) and the bonds will start oscillating, resulting in a very quick exchange of H and D between water molecules. In the presence of H
+ from water autodissociation this is made even easier, as H
+ will attach itself to one of the lone electron pairs of a molecule (red outlined part). Charge will delocalize to all hydrogens three hydrogens (as in H
3O
+), which makes them even more eager to bond to neighbor water molecules, which further speeds up bond oscillations, to the point where charge easily jumps between water molecules, rearranging which hydrogen is attached to each oxygen on the way. That's actually why limiting ion conductivity of H
+ is anomalously high, several times higher than that of any other ion - H
+ doesn't have to travel by itself, it is charge that jumps (not the case of, say, Na
+, which has to meticulously navigate between water molecules).
This explanation is far from being strict, but gives good intuition, and shows why individual water molecules in liquid water are not as "separate" as molecules in other liquids.