What I mean about white dwarfs is that if you look at interactions between particles, say you want to understand the heat conduction, you find that electrons deep in the Fermi sea don't scatter at all-- because the state they would have to scatter into is already "occupied." That's the language we use to talk about what is happening, but it's not a very good language, because it is deeply steeped in a form of local realism that can lead us astray in other applications. We imagine that star is full of different electrons, each with their own momentum state, and we say that the one electron can't go into a momentum state where there is already another one, but the whole reason that can't happen is because the electrons don't have identities like that! So the language is internally inconsistent, though common and somewhat innocuous if not taken too literally.
What is actually true is that if you look at the combined wavefunction of all the electrons, there simply are not unique individual electron states-- you can decompose into a concept of individual electron states in a host of different ways, akin to choosing a different basis for a single-particle wavefunction. So it's just not true that there is "already an electron in that momentum state", that is merely one way to translate the combined wavefunction into language that sounds like it kind of makes sense, but should not be taken literally. For example, it should not be taken so literally as to imagine that when we try to scatter an electron and find we cannot, somehow that "other electron" that is "already in that momentum state" produces some "nonlocal influence" that "prevents" our electron from scattering. None of that language is supported by the quantum mechanics that is determined by the total wavefunction of all the electrons, which does not distinguish any individual electrons at all. The experiment that is trying to scatter an electron could determine properties like the momentum of whatever electron is being culled out in that way, and only then is there "that electron" with "that momentum", but no experiment is doing that for any "other individual electron", so we shouldn't even talk about each "other individual electron" like it was a real thing there. When you avoid that, you avoid the whole concept of "influences" between electrons, you simply don't think of the system as being comprised of individual independent electrons-- it is a whole system that contains some number of electrons, none of which are distinguished and none of which have individual momenta.