Obsessed with a Bag Lady: Aging and Desires

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The discussion centers on a man's admission of a sex obsession, sparked by an attraction to a woman he describes as a "bag lady." Despite recognizing the potential harm to his marriage, he feels overwhelmed by his desires. Participants emphasize the importance of loyalty to his wife and suggest addressing underlying issues in their relationship, including communication about intimacy. They argue that sexual attraction can persist into older age and encourage him to rekindle the romance with his wife rather than pursue an affair. Ultimately, the conversation highlights the complexities of desire and the need for open dialogue in long-term relationships.
  • #61
TheStatutoryApe said:
For most people "work" refers to this thing that they have to do which they would rather not, an obligation rather than a desire.
Perhaps a better word is "effort". We all know that few good things come to us without investing some sort of effort.
 
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And if one or both parties don't really care, there won't be any effort.
 
  • #63
StevieTNZ said:
People still have sex when they're 60?!

Why do you dislike old people?

@ OP: That doesn't seem like a sex obsession to me, more like you just want to take a gander at another lady's goods. If that is the case, you're 60, just ask your wife for an open marriage.
 
  • #64
pongo38 said:
'Lemon tree, very pretty, and the lemon flower is sweet, but the fruit of the poor lemon is impossible to eat'
Lemon flower, very pretty, and the lemon fruit is sweet, but the tree of the poor lemon is impossible to eat.
 
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I only knew the lemon tree from the background for this song...


the album version is better than the live one here.
 
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He could just ask his wife if she cares if he has an "out of marriage" dalliance. But perhaps he should ask the bag lady first. She might not be interested.
 

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