Physics makes me feel really worthless

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A second-year mechanical engineering student is struggling with dynamics, feeling overwhelmed and questioning their interest in physics and engineering. Despite initially being motivated, they now feel apathetic and are concerned about their ability to succeed in future courses. The discussion highlights that many students face similar challenges, often experiencing burnout and the pressure of increased difficulty in university. It emphasizes the importance of seeking support and managing stress, as well as the need to differentiate between genuine struggles and feelings of inadequacy. Ultimately, the conversation underscores that navigating these challenges is a common part of the educational journey.
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Pipsqueakalchemist said:
Yea I heard about the dip before. It’s just for some reason the idea of studying and working seems so unappealing to me right now. I used to be a really hard working student but now I just don’t have any drive to work. I still want to stay in my major but my work ethic is just non existent at this point. I often think to my self that I wish everything would be easy for me and that I wouldn’t have to work to learn and contribute to science which I know isn’t realistic and a very dumb view but it’s how I kinda feel right now.
That’s the dip.

It’s kinda like Navy Seals training. They put you through the most physically, emotionally, and mentally grueling exercises and situations. Many people do not have the stamina, fortitude, and mental toughness to make it, and drop out of the program. They figure out it’s just not worth it for them. It just becomes a question of how bad you want it.
 
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Pipsqueakalchemist said:
It’s just for some reason the idea of studying and working seems so unappealing to me right now. I used to be a really hard working student but now I just don’t have any drive to work. I still want to stay in my major but my work ethic is just non existent at this point.
Trust me, it's not just you. I had the same feelings in grad school after getting my butt handed to me by a toxic research group. Don't beat yourself up over it, and try to give yourself the opportunity to recover. It might take longer than you'd like. If you can, take it easier and/or fewer classes for a semester or two. If your circumstances allow it, taking an extra semester isn't the end of the world.

Also, not wanting to work hard isn't always a bad thing. There are a lot of people in STEM who don't value their labor highly enough, and throw away their hours cheaply just for competitiveness's sake. (Not judging anyone for doing so, and I certainly have been / will be guilty of doing exactly this.) There's something to be said for respecting the value of your labor. Now you know what your hours are worth to you

Make sure to take some time and enjoy your time off! Once COVID is under control in your area, maybe try and get together with friends. Taking care of yourself is priority #1!
 
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I assume the semester is over now. What eventually happened with you and the Dynamics course?
 

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