whybother said:
When I say atheist, and to the people who I say it to, it means I reject all gods, Christian or otherwise, magic, and any other weird non scientific beliefs that people seem to have. Maybe atheist means something different to you, but it doesn't mean something weird or Christian specific to me, and also importantly, to the people I talk to...
You have a right to your beliefs! And as Voltaire said,
I may not agree with what you say, but I will defend to the death your right to say it...Also though, when you use words like "weird" could you see how this could be misconstrued by someone who might have a different set of beliefs?
If you don't care that's fine; but sometimes, we just aren't aware of these things. The issue is that 9.5 times out of 10, we tend to have friends, acquaintances, etc. that share our beliefs so it's not a problem.
I would never in a million years label my atheist friends beliefs "weird" as that is a highly subjective, loaded term that is slightly condescending and pejorative...The way I found that out (see my earlier thread) was a while back while having a chat with an atheist friend and in the course of the debate I mentioned something about religion.
She very insightfully showed me how what I had said could be considered disrespectful by her as an atheist.
Of course this is easier said than done. For instance, I remember reading about a group that believes aliens created the world and dropped humans down a volcano (I'm sure you know the group). I can't lie and be hypocritical. When I first heard that, I said, "those people are very crazy and loony".
Then I had an epiphany of sorts. I said to myself, "geez, this is probably how atheists feel about us". It was so eye opening. From that moment on, I corrected myself every time that religious group arose as a topic of conversation and I made those kind of comments...