QM is totally weird. Even if one can think about it in a manner that doesn't raise the "collapse of the wave function" in the presence of an observer issue.
There are a couple of ways to think about what it is to be weird.
One very sensible way is to say that it is at odd with an intelligent layman's intuition.
Another very sensible way is to say that it doesn't agree with your emotional perception of who reality should be, even if it is logical.
By either definition, QM is weird.
Let me count some of the ways:
1. The behavior of inorganic objects is probabilistic rather than deterministic. So doing the same thing twice to totally inanimate objects doesn't always produce the same result. TOTALLY WEIRD.
2. Quantum tunneling and virtual particles allow outcomes when the end point doesn't violate conservation of matter-energy, even though naively it would seem that there is an intermediate violation of conservation of matter-energy involved in reaching that outcome. Relatedly, the creation and annihilation of particle pairs out of vacuum energy. TOTALLY WEIRD.
3. The Heisenberg's Uncertainty principle. TOTALLY WEIRD.
4. Quantum entanglement. TOTALLY WEIRD.
5. The path Integral for the particle propagator considers paths for photons at speeds other than the speed of light. TOTALLY WEIRD.
6. Special relativity is part of QM and the notion that time doesn't pass at the same rate for everyone and it is asymptotically more difficult to increase speed as one approaches the speed of light. WEIRD.
7. The behavior of particles can be influenced by paths one wouldn't have thought that they took. TOTALLY WEIRD.
8. The emergence of the Second Law of Thermodynamics in the absence of relevant arrows of time in the equations. WEIRD.
9. The fact that PDFs are necessary to correctly model hadrons. TOTALLY WEIRD.
10. The fact that the vast majority of fundamental particles and hadrons are so ephemeral we can't observe them but exist. TOTALLY WEIRD.
11. Neutrino oscillation. WEIRD.
the following gives the modern view based on reasonable assumptions showing QM is not quite as weird as some make out:
http://arxiv.org/pdf/quant-ph/0101012.pdf
This makes a good case for QM being logical and relatively simple. Neither of these has anything to do with weirdness. Indeed, the whole process of deducing a complex system from a few axioms which are not themselves obvious from personal experience is itself WEIRD.