And you don't need to buy a flashy new car if you want to upgrade your safety systems to 7 airbags, etc. The car that we bought for our daughter (like I said, maybe 5-6-7 years ago?) was a Honda CRV. At the time, it was one of the few cars/models with side airbags, and IIRC, it had a very good IIHS safety rating. Maybe look at used cars with full airbag protection and good safety ratings, and low "flash factor". I'm pretty sure you can find a good used car with much better protection than what you are driving now.
BTW, my daughter really wanted an old pickup truck instead (old Ford F150 with lap belts only), but at least she was reasonable enough to agree to a more modern version with way better safety systems and design.