I was really hoping you could answer my question, being an experienced professor. I will try and make it more clear this time.
I am curious about the level of ability that can be attained, which is different than the ability to get into top schools.
The math graduate student I talked to was very depressed. Even getting into a top 20 school and being top in his class he was still lamenting that he was light years behind the students who started when they were kids and wished he went into another subject he liked: physics- where he could make a contribution.
Now I definitely do not want to be make a critical decision based on a grad students word. I came here to cross check my sources

, hopefully from people with experience in academia.
I know that you had a roundabout way getting a PHD, but to my understanding you had an incredibly good start when you were young.
How much of a persons potential is tied to starting math early?
Do you know others who started proof based math in university and were able to succeed?
Hopefully my question is more precise this time!