Mentospech said:
I mean if an asteroid comes around Earth, its clock will not run at the same speed as ours. So how does the universe tell which clock should go faster and which slower
The universe can't. Which clock runs faster depends on whether you are measuring from the asteroid or Earth.
let's start off with a simple example. We have four clocks A,B,C, and D. A and B are a pair, And C and D are a pair and these pairs are in relative motion with respect to each other. Each pair of clock is synchronized to each other according to each pair. In other words clocks A and B always consider themselves as reading the same at any given moment, and Clock C and D always consider themselves as reading the same at the same moment.
What the Relativity of simultaneity says is that Clocks A and B will not consider clocks C and D as being in sync with each other and clocks C and D will not consider clocks A and B as being in sync.
So first we consider things from the rest frame of A and B:
Here we assume that C and D are moving from right to left. We start with Clock A and C just passing each other while both read 0. At that same moment D is passing B. B, being in sync with A, also reads 0. However D not being in sync with C does not read 0 but already reads 2.5. An observer at clock B would record clock D reading 2.5 as it passed and his own clock read 0.
We then move forward to when D reaches A. In this particular example the relative speed of the pairs and the distance between clocks result in clock A reading 8.66 and Clock D reading 10 when they pass each other.
Both A and B have advanced by 8.66, while clocks C and D have only advanced by 7.5. Even though clock D shows a later time than A when they meet, D ticked slower.
Now we switch to the rest frame of C and D.
when we do this, we have to take a few things in consideration. In the above image the distances between A-B and C-D are equal. However, C-D is in motion relative to this frame, and is thus length contracted. In its own frame, the C-D distance will be measured as being greater than it was in the A-B frame. In addition, It si now A-B that is moving and will show length contraction. Also, in the A-B frame, it was clocks A and B that were in sync, while in the C-D frame, it is clocks C and D that will be measured as being in sync.
Again we start out with A and C passing each other when they read 0
You will note that when this occurs, due to the difference in A-B and C-D distances as measured in this frame, B has not yet aligned with D. In order for it to read 0 when this occurs, it now reads sometime before 0. Also note that clock D reads 0 and this moment and thus will advance some before B reaches it.
At the next stage we show when B and D meet. Both Clocks A and B have advanced by 2.165, while Clocks C and D have advanced by 2.5. As above, when B and D pass, B reads 0 and D reads 2.5. An observer at D would, when his clock read 2.5, be seeing B just passing by reading 0. Just like the observer at B would see his clock read 0 as D passes reading 2.5.
Lastly we get to when A and D meet. As in the first image, A reads 8.66 and D reads 10. In this case however, A advanced 8.66 while D advanced 10. clocks A and B tick slower than clocks C and D.
In this situation there is no "right" answer as to which clocks ticked slower. This relies on the fact that neither A-B or C-D never change their velocity during the exercise.
Things change if any of these pairs of clocks change velocity between any set of clock measurements. (any accelerations that might of taken place before the start of this setup don't matter). Then you can get a situation where both pairs of clocks will agree that one clock ended up accumulating more or less time than another( though even then, at any given moment they might not agree as to which clock was running fast.)