Hello and welcom Joel! I swear there are Finns on every messageboard I find, esp Tolkien Online. There are even
http://forums.theonering.com/viewtopic.php?t=82751"!
Joel said:
I've never taken an anthropology class, but I hope my perspectice can still be of some use.
Right, where to begginn? In adulthood, I think one should have the right to identify as whatever gender one chooses (more on gender classification later). But thinking very pragmatically, a child will need role-models and support when growing up and I have a very hard time imagining myself giving support to a teenage girl, who had her first PMS, for example. My point is, that there are sex depending experiences that a child will need guidance in and I think parrents have to take that into account when giving advice. In other words, some form of minimal gender assignment has to be done, even if it doesn't mean boys only have to be taught to fight and girls to cook.
I think that giving guidance on issues that have to do with one's sex is helpful and needed. I think the main thrust of my point is that parents should cultivate and encourage whatever a child has a natural propensity or liking for, rather than only exposing them to gender-oriented activities. People are often discouraged from trying activities that have traditionally been assigned to the opposite sex. It seems we could be missing out on a lot because of this. It's also hard to reconcile physical anthropological studies with cultural ones because, though they share common ground, they are essentially grounded in the nature vs nurture debate. I post a lot on this forum about the influence our biology plays, esp in light of primatology studies. However, even a cursory exploration of other cultures shows how wide-ranging human behavior can be.
Joel said:
Also, when intersex babies are born, the parrents and doctors agree on what gender they are raised as, which I've understood isn't always easy. My neuroscience book presents "John/Joan's case" as an example. John lost his penis as an infant in an operation accident and his parrents where adviced to have all necessary operations and hormonal treatments made to change his sex - and so they did - afterwich they also raised him (her) as a girl. In the popular press it was brought up as a, "... dramatic case ... provides strong support ... that conventional patterns of masculine and feminine behaviour can be altered. It also casts doubt on the theory that major sex differences, psychological as well as anatomical, are immunutably set by genes at conception". (Times, January 8, 1973). However, in a follow up report his brother among others said John was teased during his childhood for not fitting in. He was attracted to girls, felt like a man according his own words and was finally told about his background. All that lead to conciderable emotionall problems. Despite his quite traumatic past, he has now done a sex change (again) and is now married with a wife. (Neuroscience, by Bear, Connor, Paradiso).
I think there are two important lessons from this story. One, that we can not just cut&paste as desired, there may very well be many biological differences affecting our gender identification that we are not aware of. (Well, actually that was Bear & Co:s point...)
I definitely agree that biology does control a lot of our actions and preferences. Natural selection has maximized us for reproduction and survival, which entails separate strategies for each sex. Really interesting studies on this, esp the theory about the
origin of the sexes. Really makes you wonder what it would be like if we were isogamous...I assume we couldn't be this large for one thing, or multicellular! Interesting cases for gender role swapping is seen in birds - there are species of birds (a minority) in which the female has a harem of males who also tend the eggs. Plus, male pigeons are involved in the nurturing of young, most clearly seen by the production of
http://www.stanfordalumni.org/birdsite/text/essays/Bird_Milk.html". Wow, doesn't take much for me to get off track! Ok, so yes, I agree that our behavior, preferences, and to a degree our personalities are influenced by our sex.
Joel said:
Two, regardless of how society ought to behave, threathened minority memberships are always a challenge, especially for a child. Most have them, I belong to two, but I still think parrents ought to think about them when raising their children. A child will not necessarily understand that by raising him for example genderlessly (if it's even possible) he will help to reach an ideal of non-superficial classifications. "A child can't be taken to the barricades".
True, my goal would be to enrich my child as much as possible, which would entail ignoring gender classifications in some cases. I'm not actually pushing for abolishment of genders, I'm just interested in deconstructing Euro-American ideas of gender to understand them better, perhaps even modify them. Obviously, I do think that there is still segregation of the sexes, to the detriment of both sexes. Think of all the things that males are forced into! Maleness is a huge concern to our culture, thus males are under tight control, perhaps even more so than females.
Joel said:
Finally, regarding sex classification... I've seen numbers ranging from 1,2% to 0,02% of newborns being intersex (depending on the deffinition). Is this not a quite good coverage? I understand there is a political point in thinking about sex as a gradual scale or having more classes, but it really ought to be possible to treat intersex people equally, without changing the cathegorization. As you said, our two valued logic springs from Platon, so there may be too much to change in that regard.
I'm actually not even considering this from a politically correct viewpoint. I just think we might have a more enriched culture if we didn't stress such a diametric framework. And yes, I am in agreement about Plato. I don't think much
can actually change. Culture is way too ingrained in our lives for that to happen, and it would be very threatening to social institutions and aspects. It is nice to muse over it tho
Hello and welcom Joel! I swear there are Finns on every messageboard I find, esp Tolkien Online. There's are even
http://forums.theonering.com/viewtopic.php?t=82751"!
Joel said:
I've never taken an anthropology class, but I hope my perspectice can still be of some use.
Right, where to begginn? In adulthood, I think one should have the right to identify as whatever gender one chooses (more on gender classification later). But thinking very pragmatically, a child will need role-models and support when growing up and I have a very hard time imagining myself giving support to a teenage girl, who had her first PMS, for example. My point is, that there are sex depending experiences that a child will need guidance in and I think parrents have to take that into account when giving advice. In other words, some form of minimal gender assignment has to be done, even if it doesn't mean boys only have to be taught to fight and girls to cook.
I think that giving guidance on issues that have to do with one's sex is helpful and needed. I think the main thrust of my point is that parents should cultivate and encourage whatever a child has a natural propensity or liking for, rather than only exposing them to gender-oriented activities. People are often discouraged from trying activities that have traditionally been assigned to the opposite sex. It seems we could be missing out on a lot because of this. It's also hard to reconcile physical anthropological studies with cultural ones because, though they share common ground, they are essentially grounded in the nature vs nurture debate. I post a lot on this forum about the influence our biology plays, esp in light of primatology studies. However, even a cursory exploration of other cultures shows how wide-ranging human behavior can be.
Joel said:
Also, when intersex babies are born, the parrents and doctors agree on what gender they are raised as, which I've understood isn't always easy. My neuroscience book presents "John/Joan's case" as an example. John lost his penis as an infant in an operation accident and his parrents where adviced to have all necessary operations and hormonal treatments made to change his sex - and so they did - afterwich they also raised him (her) as a girl. In the popular press it was brought up as a, "... dramatic case ... provides strong support ... that conventional patterns of masculine and feminine behaviour can be altered. It also casts doubt on the theory that major sex differences, psychological as well as anatomical, are immunutably set by genes at conception". (Times, January 8, 1973). However, in a follow up report his brother among others said John was teased during his childhood for not fitting in. He was attracted to girls, felt like a man according his own words and was finally told about his background. All that lead to conciderable emotionall problems. Despite his quite traumatic past, he has now done a sex change (again) and is now married with a wife. (Neuroscience, by Bear, Connor, Paradiso).
I think there are two important lessons from this story. One, that we can not just cut&paste as desired, there may very well be many biological differences affecting our gender identification that we are not aware of. (Well, actually that was Bear & Co:s point...)
I definitely agree that biology does control a lot of our actions and preferences. Natural selection has maximized us for reproduction and survival, which entails separate strategies for each sex. Really interesting studies on this, esp the theory about the
origin of the sexes. Really makes you wonder what it would be like if we were isogamous...I assume we couldn't be this large for one thing, or multicellular! Interesting cases for gender role swapping is seen in birds - there are species of birds (a minority) in which the female has a harem of males who also tend the eggs. Plus, male pigeons are involved in the nurturing of young, most clearly seen by the production of
http://www.stanfordalumni.org/birdsite/text/essays/Bird_Milk.html". Wow, doesn't take much for me to get off track! Ok, so yes, I agree that our behavior, preferences, and to a degree our personalities are influenced by our sex.
Joel said:
Two, regardless of how society ought to behave, threathened minority memberships are always a challenge, especially for a child. Most have them, I belong to two, but I still think parrents ought to think about them when raising their children. A child will not necessarily understand that by raising him for example genderlessly (if it's even possible) he will help to reach an ideal of non-superficial classifications. "A child can't be taken to the barricades".
True, my goal would be to enrich my child as much as possible, which would entail ignoring gender classifications in some cases. I'm not actually pushing for abolishment of genders, I'm just interested in deconstructing Euro-American ideas of gender to understand them better, perhaps even modify them. Obviously, I do think that there is still segregation of the sexes, to the detriment of both sexes. Think of all the things that males are forced into! Maleness is a huge concern to our culture, thus males are under tight control, perhaps even more so than females.
Joel said:
Finally, regarding sex classification... I've seen numbers ranging from 1,2% to 0,02% of newborns being intersex (depending on the deffinition). Is this not a quite good coverage? I understand there is a political point in thinking about sex as a gradual scale or having more classes, but it really ought to be possible to treat intersex people equally, without changing the cathegorization. As you said, our two valued logic springs from Platon, so there may be too much to change in that regard.
I hope I havn't missed the ENTIRE point or sound too pessimistic, but these are very interesting matters and my main point is that these things are far from straightforeward, like you yourself have pointed out repeatedly.
Joel said:
I hope I havn't missed the ENTIRE point or sound too pessimistic, but these are very interesting matters and my main point is that these things are far from straightforeward, like you yourself have pointed out repeatedly.
Nah, you sound like you're being realistic. I think one can be optimistic and realistic at the same time. I think a great first step is deconstructing these things so we can understand why we do the things we do and what action we should take accordingly. Funny how we pride ourselves so much on the "human" ability to think and understand our surroundings when there are so many veils we do not penetrate in our everyday lives.