Note that for the message below, I assume you meant to isolate d on one side of the equals sign, from the following equality:
[tex](a+b)^n-(a^n+b^n)-((c+d)^n-(c^n+d^n))=0[/tex]Just take the d^n out of the one side of the equation, and take the nth root of both sides. You end up with:
[tex]d=\sqrt[n]{{\left( d+c\right) }^{n}-{c}^{n}-{\left( b+a\right) }^{n}+{b}^{n}+{a}^{n}}[/tex]
Of course, if you want to entirely remove d from the one side (under the radical above), you'd probably need to calculate for specific n.
For example, solved in maxima... lazily ;), with n equal to 3:
[tex]d=-\frac{\sqrt{{c}^{4}+\left( 4\,a\,{b}^{2}+4\,{a}^{2}\,b\right) \,c}+{c}^{2}}{2\,c}[/tex]
...or...
[tex]d=\frac{\sqrt{{c}^{4}+\left( 4\,a\,{b}^{2}+4\,{a}^{2}\,b\right) \,c}-{c}^{2}}{2\,c}[/tex]
Keep in mind that it gets crazy complicated as you increase powers of n.