A general rule of thumb is that if you can define an operation without mentioning a particular coordinate system, then it is a coordinate-free definition, and linear operations with coordinate-free definitions are (almost?) always tensors. So a way to show that T is a tensor is to show:
- There is a coordinate-free way to define T(U,V)
- T(U,V) is linear in both U and V
The coordinate-free definition of T(U,V) is this:
T(U,V) = \nabla_U V - \nabla_V U - [U,V]
where \nabla_U means the covariant derivative, or directional derivative along U, and where [U,V] is the vector field defined by its action on a scalar field:
\nabla_{[U,V]} \phi \equiv \nabla_U (\nabla_V \phi) - \nabla_V (\nabla_U \phi)
So T(U,V) has a coordinate-free definition. Now, you have to show that it is linear in U and V. Since T(U,V) = -T(V,U), it's enough to show that T(U,V) is linear in U. So let \bar{U} \equiv \phi U + W, where \phi is a scalar field, and W is a vector field. Then we need to show that T(\bar{U}, V) = \phi T(U,V) + T(W,V)
T(\bar{U},V) = \nabla_{\bar{U}} V - \nabla_V \bar{U} - [\bar{U},V]
Using properties of covariant derivatives, we have:
\nabla_{(\phi U + W)} V = \phi \nabla_U V + \nabla_W V
\nabla_V (\phi U + W) = (\nabla_V \phi) U + \phi (\nabla_V U) + \nabla_V W
[\phi U + W, V] = \phi [U,V] - (\nabla_V \phi) U + [W,V]
So we have:
T(\bar{U},V) = \phi \nabla_U V + \nabla_W V - (\nabla_V \phi) U - \phi (\nabla_V U) - \nabla_V W - \phi [U,V] + (\nabla_V \phi) U - [W,V]
The two occurrences of \nabla_V \phi cancel out, giving:
T(\bar{U},V) = \phi \nabla_U V + \nabla_W V + \phi (\nabla_V U) - \nabla_V W - \phi [U,V] - [W,V]
= \phi (\nabla_U V - \nabla_V U - [U,V]) + \nabla_W V - \nabla_V W - [W,V]
= \phi T(U,V) + T(W,V)