I'd suggest you look up the basics, uncertainty principle would be a good start, before you involve yourself in probability and superposition and all the confusion that imparts. I don't think it's that much of a headache to think that a wave remains in a state that is indefinable until measurement, just because that is a given. How can one express an epistemology of system one has no knowledge of without assigning variables to an unknown that are possible and "random". To put it simply after all, if I could not look at the ripples in a pond, but I could touch them, I would see that once I had imparted energy to the "water" the ripple patterns had changed because I touched them, I would have no knowledge of the intitial system because I could not see it. Feynman lectures are always an amazing place to start. You can find them in many places, Google them. :)